Well Eleanor being a member of neither the blue team nor the red team I selected examples from both just to be even handed.
What cannot be escaped is that a little girl went on holiday and did not return. That event led to an international circus from which a lot of people have made a lot of money, however the little girl remains unaccounted for 7 years later. Unfortunately being on this forum makes us part of that circus. Isn't it wonderful being a member of the human race?
Of course we are part of the circus. I knew that about me nearly from Day One, after which I sussed what was going on.
I have ultimately chosen a side for perfectly understandable reasons to me, after several months of reading anything that I could find. But believe me, there was a time when I doubted The McCanns, mainly due to personal reasons that briefly skewed my reasoning. So even I put The McCanns in a place of doubt because of my own experiences.
And then I remembered that I was not a perfect parent. Tis funny how these things escape you when it looks like fun to put the boot in to other people who might appear in some way to be better than you.
But in the end it all comes down to Logistics. Everything does.