Jeez Pfinder, were my parents there when I swam my first mile
Were they there when ran my first rounder
Were they there when I managed the long fly in the gym
No.
Did I expect it or need it?
No
But
They were there to support me when I was in hospital rather a lot as a youngster.
They were there when I started school
They were there when I competed in Sports Day at school
Ones parents cannot be everywhere holding their childs hand. In fact it isn't healthy that they are.
Had Kate been there, Madeleine would have missed the thrill of sailing because initially she played up a bit . Had Kate been there I doubt Madeleine would have sailed. She would have missed what she described as the best day of her life ever.
I wonder how many of the other parents were watching?
Dave, Fiona, Matt, Russell and Jane went to the beach that morning.
Erm, you know, walking down to the beach, so Russell, me and Evie walked down to the beach. I don’t know, I don’t know what Kate did then (inaudible) but I don’t know where Kate went at that point, but she didn’t come to the beach with us. Erm, we, I think we met Dave and Fi coming back, because they’d had their second, I think they’d had their second sailing lesson, erm, which Russell should have gone to but he didn’t because of looking after Evie, because I’d paid for the tennis lesson but he hadn’t paid for the sailing lesson we thought I’d do the tennis lesson”.
4078 “Because it was paid?”
Reply “Yeah, erm, I think we met Dave and Fi coming back and they said they’d seen Madeleine and Ella on a boat, because they’d taken the kids sailing that morning, so they said ‘Oh we’ve seen Madeleine and Ella on a boat down there’. So then we went down to the beach, erm, and Russell took out a kayak and I sat and just played on the beach with Evie at that point. And we saw, erm, they’d come off the boat and we saw Ella and Madeleine and the rest of the group, they were just, erm, they’d just come off the boat and they were getting ready to walk back up to the, erm, tut, the Kids Club, so”. (JT)