Why does kate refer to Yvonne Martin popping up again and saying she never found out who she was nor what she wanted (or words to that effect in her book).
She did know who she was and would know what she wanted - that was to help.
Maybe I am the only one to have suffered a shocking distressing thing with their child? I hope no-one else has.
When my sons illness was diagnosed as Medulla Blastoma ( at that time a virtually totally life taking brain tumour) my whole body went numb, as well as my brain for most things. I did npt operate normally The whole of me flopped yet my mind raced - over and over, round and round, up and down, it went.
I would not have been able to cope with strangers interfering ... and neither would I have been able to fully comprehend them.
Quite probably YM seemed just an interfering busy body to Kate, like a fly persistently buzzing around her ... and that is probably the only impact that YM made on Kate.
I have little doubt that YM had good intentions, but it seems to me that she took completely the wrong approach at such a sensitive time
AIMHO, but I have been there.