Leaving flowers at his girlfriend's grave? What on earth is arrogant and insensitive about that ?
He was unable to attend murdered Jodi's funeral for two reasons
- his presence was not wanted and he had been asked to stay away
- he was unable to attend because the timing would have clashed with his Sky news interview
He obviously had no intention of being left out of his big day and went to extraordinary lengths to make sure that the day of Jodi being left to rest was not about her ... it was all about him ... and he didn't give a fig about who he offended in the process
My opinion then and now is that shows a particular and peculiar mindset as far as convicted murderers are concerned.
For example Tobin kept a low profile and went to great lengths to hide his crimes and victims even to the extent of taking Vicky Hamilton's remains with him when he moved house and country.
Jodi's remains were exhibited and left on display and Mitchell was present (which was no accident) to observe her family when they saw the mess in which she had been left.