Smoking causes lung cancer the evidence proves it... Based on your, argument how would you feel about your grandchildren smoking.. Would you deter them
My grandchildren are not related to me by genetics.
However, my beloved's family also appears to be prone to deaths related to high blood pressure, not cancer.
I don't lecture my children about topics such as smoking or high blood pressure. I put in a little gentle steerage from time to time, but otherwise they are the responsible authorities, not me. My time is past.
Here's a small true story for you. We oldies don't have a Netflix subscription. But I twigged in a conversation that the kids do, so the question arose, could I borrow it to watch the Madeleine series? The answer was yes, so far, so good.
The next part of the conversation was about the '14 bottles of wine' allegation. I felt obliged to do a little steerage, to explain that the 14 bottles were not just for the T9, but for all those entitled parties in the Tapas on that occasion. Oh!
Our kids did not watch the Netflix series. Having worked in Luz, they are sick to the back teeth of the MBM story.