‘Were’ or are and what about females with these views?
Interesting question. I'm going to put it this way. From what I observe, are less so now, than they previously were, BUT, I don't know what's going on under the surface. It's not impossible that, subconsciously, men crave the ideal mother/lover figure who'll fulfil their every need.
As for females? A modern, independent woman is unlikely to hold such views, BUT, there maybe something about being looked after, taken care of, having no responsibilities, which could seem preferable to living in a world is which she has to fight her way up the same ladder that men climb with unrestricted ease...............especially if she's already experienced being bought up in a family which has taught her that a woman's place is in the home, bringing up children.
These beliefs don't hit us like a sledgehammer when we reach adulthood. We'll have experienced them at work, all our lives. They don't change until they're challenged.