I find it inexplicable that people who profess to know exactly how the McCanns were thinking and feeling at all times seem quite unable to understand how others feel about the lack of concern shown by them on 3rd May. They didn't show any interest in searching for their daughter. I find that inexplicable because if their daughter had been abducted, abused and dumped she would have been terrified. Had she hid in fear whose voice would have persuaded her to show herself? A stranger's or her parent's? As usual the parents seemed utterly unable to empathise with their daughter.
I'm afraid I don't recognise your description of the McCanns reaction to finding their daughter was missing from her bed.
The various accounts of how they reacted given by people who were actually there - do not give the impression that the McCanns were disinterested or unconcerned in any way, shape or form. Quite the opposite in fact - they were in deep shock and frantic. They did search that night, both before the PJ arrived and after they had left. How you equate that with having no interest in searching for her is inexplicable to me.
There is no instruction manual on how to react when you find your child missing and believe her to be abducted.
It's noticeable however that it is only folk who have never been in their situation who have decided that because the McCanns didn't react how THEY think they should - then there must be something 'sinister' going on.
That is obviously not the view of those parents who HAVE been in their situation and who do support the McCanns. Not only have they met the McCanns, but they too have had the same opportunity as the rest of us to examine the files.
In view of their ongoing support for the McCanns - it must be a source of great puzzlement to you - as to how those other parents could get it all soooooo wrong.