On 4 August 1985, three days before the murders, Sheila took the boys to spend a week at the Bamber farm. The farm's housekeeper saw Sheila that day but noticed nothing unusual about her, she was also observed the following day with her children by two farm workers, Julie and Leonard Foakes, who said she appeared quite herself and happy.
It seems that an argument developed at the farm on the evening prior to the murders. The farm secretary, Barbara Wilson, stated in evidence that she had telephoned the farmhouse at 9.30 pm that evening and spoke to Nevill. She said he was short with her and this had left her with the impression that she had interrupted an argument. Pamela Boutflour, June Bamber's sister, also telephoned the house that evening at about 10 pm. She spoke to Sheila, who she said was quiet, then to June, who seemed normal.
It has been suggested that Nevill and June had made a suggestion to Sheila that evening which would effectively see her return home from London to the cottage at Goldhanger which was then occupied by Jeremy. Was Jeremy present at that discussion, was this the straw that broke the camels back?
The rest as they say is history.