Martha, you desperately wish to have a child, you try for years in vain, you're an only child and your parents are expecting you to give them a baby to love, you finally manage to have a IVF, it first doesn't result, then it does and you can't believe your eyes, this is the most beautiful day of your life, the best present ever got. Then 4 and half years later, you stupidly leave that child alone without locking the door, because your husband says "it will be fine", letting arrive the worst day of your life : your child isn't there any more, you have to tell your parents, are you going to tell them that you left the door open and some one passed by and took your child ? No, you feel so guilty, so ashamed, this is more than you can bear, you pretend shutters and window were forced.
Jean-Jacques Rousseau describes very well this feeling (a similar episode happened to him) in "Les confessions".
Is this an imaginary scenario you are depicting or do you believe this is what may actually have happened in PdL? Because if it is the latter, you seem to be suggesting that the McCanns lied to their family when they discovered that their child had vanished, not that they were involved in covering up her death, is that your view?
Martha, I think this scenario is plausible and fits the "we've let her down". I'm trying to understand, not to judge.
OK, thanks. Can I ask why you seem reluctant to consider the possibility that the McCanns simply mistakenly thought the shutters had been forced open? After all, would YOU not consider this a possibility if you returned home and discovered the window open and shutters up in a room where you had left everything closed?
Martha, If I returned home in a foreign country and discovered kid missing and open shutters and window I never touched and am not accustomed to, I think I'd keep screaming like a beast and alert the restaurant (local) people who'd call the police (I would look in the park). I wouldn't experiment opening from outside (I would be out of my mind), but once the police there I'd certainly discuss the opening issue.
The shutters/window question wasn't an issue in the GNR reports and in Silvia Bastista's one. John H tried to say those shutters weren't forced, but of course as an OC manager his words had a relative value.
I'm not reluctant to contemplate a misunderstanding, Martha, but if it wasn't disinformation, it should have been cleared up for the benefit and serenity of all.