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Offline Nicholas

Re: Did Jeremy Bamber Have An Affair With Charles Marsden?
« Reply #150 on: May 22, 2020, 04:47:01 PM »

I concur that there's obviously a background to the immediacy of the words in print, but what does it have to do with Jeremy's conviction?

It changes the dynamics of the false narrative in the public domain for starters April
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Offline Caroline

Re: Did Jeremy Bamber Have An Affair With Charles Marsden?
« Reply #151 on: May 22, 2020, 04:50:26 PM »
*%87

Do you mean he - Bamber ?

Didn’t Anji say she met Bamber when he went to Virginia’s Mums house ?

Or did CAL say that?

Yeah 'he'.

CAL's references to VG are from her W/S - we don't have that. There is clearly something not right with their story. Anji said it was her who Julie was pissed off about but Julie confirms it was VG. Unless we can see VG's statement it's not clear who said or did what but VG admits to sleeping with him because I doubt she 'spent the night' in the spare room.

Offline Nicholas

Re: Did Jeremy Bamber Have An Affair With Charles Marsden?
« Reply #152 on: May 22, 2020, 04:52:37 PM »
The part in CAL's book is from VG statement and according her her, she hadn't even met Anji at that point. Someone be telling lies.

Caroline are you claiming this entire passage is from CAL’s book verbatim

VG rang Jeremy about renting Sheila's flat, (they had dated previously). Jeremy invited her to Goldhanger to discuss the flat and they ended up spending the night together. Instead of meeting Julie on 31st August, he went with VG to her mums house where they has a meal and he told her that he 'cared about her'. He then gave her a lift to London as she had plans to stay with her sister, showing her around Sheila's flat before dropping her off. So, they had slept together and he was obviously trying to pursue her and she was obviously open to it until the day she called him and Julie realised who he was talking to - VG didn't want to be part of the drama and may not have even know about Julie until then. Bamber also told Charles Marsden that she was moving into Sheila's flat with him.
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Offline Nicholas

Re: Did Jeremy Bamber Have An Affair With Charles Marsden?
« Reply #153 on: May 22, 2020, 04:54:07 PM »
Yeah 'he'.

CAL's references to VG are from her W/S - we don't have that. There is clearly something not right with their story. Anji said it was her who Julie was pissed off about but Julie confirms it was VG. Unless we can see VG's statement it's not clear who said or did what but VG admits to sleeping with him because I doubt she 'spent the night' in the spare room.

So Bamber was sleeping with both sisters and presumably they weren’t aware he was cheating on each on them with each other ?

There must be a witness statement from Anji somewhere.

The police would have known about their contact, especially whilst he was on remand in prison
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Offline Caroline

Re: Did Jeremy Bamber Have An Affair With Charles Marsden?
« Reply #154 on: May 22, 2020, 05:15:46 PM »
So Bamber was sleeping with both sisters and presumably they weren’t aware he was cheating on each on them with each other ?

There must be a witness statement from Anji somewhere.

The police would have known about their contact, especially whilst he was on remand in prison

I wonder? In order to play on the 'woman scorned scenario' perhaps Bamber asked Anji to say they were seeing each other longer than they had been. Perhaps Virginia just didn't want to get involved?

Offline ISpyWithMyEye

Re: Did Jeremy Bamber Have An Affair With Charles Marsden?
« Reply #155 on: May 22, 2020, 06:37:49 PM »
And here’s a thread Holly started over on blue re Charles Marsden http://jeremybamberforum.co.uk/index.php/topic,3878.msg159278.html#msg159278


Charles Marsden
« on: February 05, 2013, 11:13:PM »
Steve_uk has asked posters to rate the credibility of Charles Marsden as a *prosecution witness but I've noticed that many posters have no idea who CM is.  So for those in doubt I've taken all the info verbatim from Wilkes' book.  Charles Marsden was the boyfriend of JM's friend, Liz Rimmington.  And although CM was interviewed by the police I don't believe he was actually a *prosecution witness?

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Para 1

"A friend of Jeremy, Charles Mardsen, called round, and someone suggested going out for dinner.  Once again, the venue was the Caribbean Cottage at Burnham, although for some reason the party didn't eat.  They just drunk"

Para 2

"The detectives were intrigued by the tale told by another of Jeremy Bamber's friends, the sales manager for a computer firm, called Charles Marsden.  Marsden was also the boyfriend of Liz Rimmington.  He described how he'd become part of Jeremy's set at the Frog and Beans wine bar in Colchester.  He explained that in a crowd that included women, Jeremy would splash out with money to the extent that he could be called 'flash'.  'He was impressed by money,' Marsden added.  'He was impressed by people who spend a lot and the things that money could buy, such as expensive cars.'  Although he worked for a modest wage on his father's farm, Jeremy had boasted that one day he would be a wealthy man.  Marsden took this to mean that one day Jeremy expected to inherit his parents' money.

Para 3

In December 1984, Jeremy had announced that his entire family were getting together to celebrate Christimas.  This was unusual.  During a drinking session at a wine bar in Maldon, Jeremy had confided to Charles Marsden that if the farmhouse were to burn down over Christmas, everything would be his.  'I thought at the time that this was a strange thing to say,' Marsden reported, 'but didn't particularly take any notice.'

Para 4

At teatime on the day following the White House Farm massacre, Jeremy Bamber had appeared at Charles Marsden's office in Colchester.  Marsden knew nothing of what had happened, and Jeremy poured out the story that Marsden later read in the newspapers.  The two men drove to a little pub outside Colchester and talked for about half an hour.  'I thought it strange that Jeremy had come to see me with this news,' Marsden admitted, 'but I thought he was probably in shock.'  What struck Charles Marsden most forcibly was that in speaking of Sheila - the sister he said had murdered his entire family and then shot herself - Jeremy showed neither emotion nor anger towards her. 

Para 5

Marsden said that he had visited Jeremy at his cottage the previous Thursday night.  Brett Collins had cooked them a chicken dinner and the three had then repaired to the Caribbean Cottage at Burnham for drinks.  Jeremy had announced that he and Julie had split up the previous weekend.  While he didn't give a specific reason, Marsden had the impression that Julie had disliked Brett Collins.  In any case, Jeremy added, he now had a new girlfriend, Virginia Greaves, who used to go out with Mike Deckers of the Frog and Beans.  Jeremy also told Charles Marsden that he and Brett were going to sell Bourtree Cottage and move to Sheila's flat in Maida Vale.  Virginia would move in too, Jeremy added.

Para 6

The detectives seemed anxious to probe Jeremy Bamber's sexual habits and preferences.  They learned from Charles Marsden that Jeremy possessed an animal magnetism for women.  Marsden said that while he knew of only two serious girlfriends, Suzette Ford and Julie Mugford, Jeremy had had many one-night stands.  He enjoyed going to clubs, such as Stringfellows in London, pulling women.  Marsden recalled an evening before the murders when he and Jeremy had gone drinking at Jeremy's local, the Chequers at Goldhangers.  They had picked up a couple of girls, one of whom had agreed to return with them to Jeremy's cottage.  Marsden, very drunk, had crashed out in Jeremy's bed.  Some time later, he'd been awoken by movement in the bed.  Lying there half asleep, Marsden realised that Jeremy had brought the girl upstairs and that the couple were having sex.  The idea of three-in-a bed sex excited the detectives' curiosity still further.  But Charles Marsden was at pains to insist that he hadn't taken part in the sex session.  And when Jeremy returned from walking the girl home, Marsden himself had got up and driven home.

Para 7

Later, at Bourtree Cottage , he'd spread the money all over the floor to look at it, before stashing it all in his little Chinese trick box and calling Charles and Liz to arrange an expensive night out.  The following evening the foursome dined out at Fifi's in Colchester and drank pink and white champagne all evening.  The bill came to £125.

Para 8

Stan Jones leafed through a sheaf of typewritten papers on the table in front of him.  'So,' he said, 'you know Charles Marsden?'  Jeremy said he did.  'He and I were very close a few years ago, and not so close now as I don't really see him that often.'  The detective continued to look through his papers.  'Do you remember me yesterday putting to you that Julie had said that you intended to drug the family and burn the farm down when they were all in it ?  Bamber said he remembered and that Julie was telling lies.  'You see' said Stan Jones, running a finger down one of the statements, 'Charles Marsden also says the same thing.  He says that around Christmas time last year, when all the family, your parents, Sheila and twins were there, you told him that if you burned the house down with all them in it, you'd get everything.  Is he telling lies as well?  Jeremy said he didn't remember discussing the matter with Marsden, and that he concluded that his friend was lying.  Stan Jones put the statement down on the table.  Julie's telling lies.' he said, recapping 'and he is telling lies.  For what reason? 'No comment.'

Para 9

Charles Marsden had also called to say that he'd been interviewed by detectives no fewer than three times.



Oh, there’s much more here than meets the eye...


This quote of Charles Marsden’s, for example:


“Sometime later he’d been awoken by movement in the bed.  Lying there half asleep, Marsden realised that Jeremy had brought the girl upstairs and that the couple were having sex.  The idea of three-in-a bed sex excited the detectives' curiosity still further.  But Charles Marsden was at pains to insist that he hadn't taken part in the sex session.  And when Jeremy returned from walking the girl home, Marsden himself had got up and driven home”



So, Charles admits he was woken by “movement in bed” — so why wasn’t he woken by the same movement in bed when Jeremy brought up a different girl on another occasion? Or maybe he did...I’m losing track

Charles had a habit of climbing into Jeremy’s bed leaving him and a girl downstairs, then for some strange reason Jeremy would bring the girl up into that bed where Charles lay....

It’s well-known that bisexual men enjoy threesomes with a woman; they can be close and intimate with each other without feeling gay...

But more importantly, why did Charles get up from the bed and drive himself home after Jeremy walked the girl home? He obviously wasn’t there to SLEEP the night...

He’d have gone home in the morning if that was the case

Charles Marsden, jumping into Jeremy’s bed leaving him and a girl downstairs, with no intention to sleep the night...and then Jeremy guiding her upstairs into that bed where Charles lay...waiting...


And that’s isn’t strange?😳

« Last Edit: May 23, 2020, 07:07:50 AM by Ispywithmybigeye »
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Offline The General

Re: Did Jeremy Bamber Have An Affair With Charles Marsden?
« Reply #156 on: May 22, 2020, 06:42:25 PM »
What are we trying to establish with this thread?
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Offline Caroline

Re: Did Jeremy Bamber Have An Affair With Charles Marsden?
« Reply #157 on: May 22, 2020, 06:52:36 PM »
Caroline are you claiming this entire passage is from CAL’s book verbatim

No, some is what I remember - like her not wanting to be involved in the drama of their relationship. The other bits are my words of what CAL wrote - it's not all on the same page. It's not a copy and paste job.

Offline Caroline

Re: Did Jeremy Bamber Have An Affair With Charles Marsden?
« Reply #158 on: May 22, 2020, 06:53:39 PM »
What are we trying to establish with this thread?

Who he was knocking off first.

Offline The General

Re: Did Jeremy Bamber Have An Affair With Charles Marsden?
« Reply #159 on: May 22, 2020, 07:00:01 PM »
Who he was knocking off first.
What's the significance (for us stupid nonagenarians)?
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Offline Caroline

Re: Did Jeremy Bamber Have An Affair With Charles Marsden?
« Reply #160 on: May 22, 2020, 07:04:46 PM »
What's the significance (for us stupid nonagenarians)?

Because there are discrepancies in what both Virginia and Anji have claimed.

I don't someone who claims to support Bamber being guilty but seems to question (regularly) points made against him a 'nonagenarian' but hey ho!

Offline Nicholas

Re: Did Jeremy Bamber Have An Affair With Charles Marsden?
« Reply #161 on: May 22, 2020, 07:06:21 PM »
I wonder? In order to play on the 'woman scorned scenario' perhaps Bamber asked Anji to say they were seeing each other longer than they had been. Perhaps Virginia just didn't want to get involved?

Why would Anji agree to that and how much longer are you talking ?

Do you mean maybe they didn’t start their relationship 2 days after the funerals and that she’s lied in her interview with the Sun and bagged the money she earned for it and when she got the news he’d been convicted she walked into the road and nearly got hit by a bus?

Brett Collins would know more about this surely. He spent time with Anji and was even photographed with her attending court. Think this was around the time Bamber was initially arrested for the Osea Road robbery

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Offline The General

Re: Did Jeremy Bamber Have An Affair With Charles Marsden?
« Reply #162 on: May 22, 2020, 07:10:51 PM »
Because there are discrepancies in what both Virginia and Anji have claimed.

I don't someone who claims to support Bamber being guilty but seems to question (regularly) points made against him a 'nonagenarian' but hey ho!
I'm playing Devil's Advocate. There's a lot of unsubstantiated claims knocking around. And more than a smattering of nuanced homophobia.

Besides, so Anj and Virginia make different claims; how does this affect anything?
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Offline Nicholas

Re: Did Jeremy Bamber Have An Affair With Charles Marsden?
« Reply #163 on: May 22, 2020, 07:24:21 PM »
Para 8

Stan Jones leafed through a sheaf of typewritten papers on the table in front of him.  'So,' he said, 'you know Charles Marsden?'  Jeremy said he did.  'He and I were very close a few years ago, and not so close now as I don't really see him that often.' The detective continued to look through his papers.  'Do you remember me yesterday putting to you that Julie had said that you intended to drug the family and burn the farm down when they were all in it ?  Bamber said he remembered and that Julie was telling lies.  'You see' said Stan Jones, running a finger down one of the statements, 'Charles Marsden also says the same thing.  He says that around Christmas time last year, when all the family, your parents, Sheila and twins were there, you told him that if you burned the house down with all them in it, you'd get everything.  Is he telling lies as well?  Jeremy said he didn't remember discussing the matter with Marsden, and that he concluded that his friend was lying.  Stan Jones put the statement down on the table.  Julie's telling lies.' he said, recapping 'and he is telling lies.  For what reason? 'No comment.'

Why would Bamber claim to Stan Jones him and Charles Marsden weren’t ‘so close now’

Yet Bamber had gone to see Marsden the day after the murders and gone for a drink in a pub outside Colchester for half an hour

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Offline Nicholas

Re: Did Jeremy Bamber Have An Affair With Charles Marsden?
« Reply #164 on: May 22, 2020, 07:34:56 PM »

No, no, no, these are not facts!

How many bedroom were in the house?

How many beds were in the house at the time?

Was one bedroom being used for storage or anything similar, therefore unusable?

Did Jeremy know beforehand (without question), did he state in previous statements that he knew CM was sleeping in another room when he was questioned about this?

It's not the norm, but what has been throughout this whole case?  if Jeremy was 'open' about his sexuality, or rather not embarrassed or shy about his sexual performance in front of others...(and many people are very open, it neither makes them murderers or abusers) then he may not have realised CM was in the bed upon him entering it immediately, but recognised he was a very short time later, but carried on?

This does not make his actions to be as perverse as one makes it out to be.

Not at all surprised you would state this

I disagree

She told detectives in 1985 that she had suddenly found herself in Jeremy’s bedroom with him, ‘on top of me having intercourse’.

The following day, the girl wondered whether she had been drugged. Feeling ‘shocked, angry and abused’ after hearing that Jeremy had told Julie about the episode, she called at the cottage while Jeremy was working.


Have underlined the words used by CAL which appear to have been the exact words used by and taken from Sarah’s witness statement or other police source
« Last Edit: May 22, 2020, 07:52:50 PM by Nicholas »
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