it comes as no surprise that posters love the posts that support their own views...this type of support really counts for nothing
I disagree with this. I often appreciate Sherlock's posts, although I disagree with her point of view. I find she's usually polite and articulate in a way that isn't rude or doesn't attack another poster's opinion. We don't have to all agree to be able to communicate with each other in a manner befitting of intelligent adults.
In fact this forum would be a boring place without different opinions! I don't want or need someone patting me on the back telling me how right I am, I appreciate people pointing out where my thinking isn't making sense. Sometimes I'll adjust my opinions, sometimes I won't.
I've seen sites where everyone has the same thoughts and they're a waste of time imo. There's no debate, just a bunch of like minded people complaining about the other side and congratulating themselves on being clever enough to see through the rubbish that the other guys have fallen for.
That's both pro and anti sites alike.