Poll

Did leaving three very young children alone constitute responsible parenting?

Yes, reasonable and adequate checks were put in place.
7 (20%)
No, young children should never be left on their own.
27 (77.1%)
Undecided.
1 (2.9%)

Total Members Voted: 22

Voting closed: February 14, 2014, 11:51:39 AM

Author Topic: Did leaving three very young children alone constitute responsible parenting?  (Read 48151 times)

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Offline Mr Gray

It is fun to pop in occasionally and lob a flag in the pond just to see how far the ripples will go.
 8(>((

perhaps you are best to stick to debating with those that agree with you

Offline Eleanor

perhaps you are best to stick to debating with those that agree with you

This is what this Forum will come down to.  And it is well on it's way.

Offline Mr Gray

This is what this Forum will come down to.  And it is well on it's way.

the mcCanns were doing what countless british families have done and there has never been an incident like this or even a serious accident...never mind a fatal one.  Even after maddies abduction MW were still advertising baby listening services at other European resorts. They have now stopped.

I remember reading an article by the McCanns where they said that PDL felt like a british resort from the fifties...quiet and very safe...security should have been better and the McCanns all the holidaymakers should have been warned about the break ins.
 I don't blame the McCanns one iota

Offline jassi

the mcCanns were doing what countless british families have done and there has never been an incident like this or even a serious accident...never mind a fatal one.  Even after maddies abduction MW were still advertising baby listening services at other European resorts. They have now stopped.

I remember reading an article by the McCanns where they said that PDL felt like a british resort from the fifties...quiet and very safe...security should have been better and the McCanns all the holidaymakers should have been warned about the break ins.
I don't blame the McCanns one iota

No surprise there, then
I believe everything. And l believe nothing.
I suspect everyone. And l suspect no one.
I gather the facts, examine the clues... and before   you know it, the case is solved!"

Or maybe not -

OG have been pushed out by the Germans who have reserved all the deck chairs for the foreseeable future

Offline Mr Gray

It's straight forward, if the parents had been in the apartment that night nobody would have heard of Madeleine McCann !

Keep your 'they acted within the realms of responsible parenting' and other such nonsense where it belongs.

Fact is they morally neglected their 3 children night after night and for that they rightly so, shall be mentally tormented 'til their last breath.

Shame on them and their apologists !

I disagree with everything you say...children have been abducted when parents have been in the house..

secondly...you have no right to tell me where to keep my opinions...

Offline Eleanor

It's straight forward, if the parents had been in the apartment that night nobody would have heard of Madeleine McCann !

Keep your 'they acted within the realms of responsible parenting' and other such nonsense where it belongs.

Fact is they morally neglected their 3 children night after night and for that they rightly so, shall be mentally tormented 'til their last breath.

Shame on them and their apologists !

That is one of the most disgusting posts I have ever read.  May someone have mercy on you one day.

Offline Mr Gray

It's straight forward, if the parents had been in the apartment that night nobody would have heard of Madeleine McCann !

Keep your 'they acted within the realms of responsible parenting' and other such nonsense where it belongs.

Fact is they morally neglected their 3 children night after night and for that they rightly so, shall be mentally tormented 'til their last breath.

Shame on them and their apologists !

 I find your behaviour appalling and unacceptable. you send out messages that this type of online nastiness is ok...young people are committing suicide because of people behaving like you.

Estuarine

  • Guest
So if someone disagrees with you , you feel debate is not possible...thats about it as far as I can see
To paraphrase M R-D you would say that wouldn't you.
Be honest davel This forum is mostly knockabout with insults it is hardly serious. Rational debate would not include expressions like you are so stupid; you are insane; you can't get one over on me sweetie; nit picking over syntax ad nauseam. But that's just my opinion.

Offline jassi

I find your behaviour appalling and unacceptable. you send out messages that this type of online nastiness is ok...young people are committing suicide because of people behaving like you.

A tad  hyperbolic, I think
I believe everything. And l believe nothing.
I suspect everyone. And l suspect no one.
I gather the facts, examine the clues... and before   you know it, the case is solved!"

Or maybe not -

OG have been pushed out by the Germans who have reserved all the deck chairs for the foreseeable future

Offline Mr Gray

A tad  hyperbolic, I think

 Not at all...I don't think we have the right to insult online...children copy adults...some adults are setting a very bad example

Offline Eleanor

What, suicide?  If I did that, I wouldn't feel anything ever again.

Smart Arse.  You know what I meant.  You are helping to turn this Forum into another Cess Pit.  Not that this worries me at all.  Another Cess Pit is just another Cess Pit.

Offline jassi

Smart Arse.  You know what I meant.  You are helping to turn this Forum into another Cess Pit.  Not that this worries me at all.  Another Cess Pit is just another Cess Pit.

I think you are doing perfectly well on your own.
I believe everything. And l believe nothing.
I suspect everyone. And l suspect no one.
I gather the facts, examine the clues... and before   you know it, the case is solved!"

Or maybe not -

OG have been pushed out by the Germans who have reserved all the deck chairs for the foreseeable future

Cariad

  • Guest
How anyone can claim leaving 3 toddlers alone, night after night, out of both eyesight and (more importantly in my opinion) out of earshot, is responsible parenting is beyond me!

It isn't ok, it wasn't ok, it will NEVER BE OK!

Can one of the mods please do something about Sadie's repeated LIES that they could see their children! They were sitting with their backs to the apartment FFS!

Jesus Christ almighty! I don't get easily wound up, but when I read all these excuses for behaviour that was utterly abhorrent,  I have to reach for the caps lock!

CPN

  • Guest
How anyone can claim leaving 3 toddlers alone, night after night, out of both eyesight and (more importantly in my opinion) out of earshot, is responsible parenting is beyond me!

It isn't ok, it wasn't ok, it will NEVER BE OK!

Can one of the mods please do something about Sadie's repeated LIES that they could see their children! They were sitting with their backs to the apartment FFS!

Jesus Christ almighty! I don't get easily wound up, but when I read all these excuses for behaviour that was utterly abhorrent,  I have to reach for the caps lock!


And you hardly need me to say I could not agree more!

What is also seemingly not realised is that the more excuses and justifications are attemptedly made, the more important it is to say again and again that such behaviour is NOT acceptable

And if they could see their children, by the way, it did not do them much good, did it?
« Last Edit: February 03, 2014, 04:18:56 PM by CPN »

Estuarine

  • Guest
And you hardly need me to say I could not agree more!

What is also seemingly not realised is that the more excuses and justifications are attemptedly made, the more important it is to say again and again that such behaviour is NOT acceptable

And if they could see their children, by the way, it did not do them much good, did it?


Well aimed CPN