The people at the creche were strangers Sadie.
Are you trying to tell me people employed at the creche wouldn't have been checked. including having references.
Perhaps you can tell me which members of the creche staff had criminal records.
As Misty says the MW Creche staff should have been trained and vetted, but that is the same in teaching and some with an unhealthy interest in children still slip thru the net.
I wonder if you deliberately chose to NOT understand what I was saying about the dangers of employing a stranger to baby sit YOUR child. In Ocean Club, whether they were creche staff, teenagers or any other stranger the same criteria holds.
There is a vast difference between leaving your children with a relative stranger in a creche which is open for other staff and parents to visit at any time. Also there is another staff crech nurse present all the time,
... in comparison to leaving a relative stranger alone in a locked place, your flat, with curtains drawn and knowledge that they are on their own to do what they wish for an uninterrupted period of several hours.
The dangers of leaving your child alone with someone who has consciously chosen to work with children are greater from the sexual abuse point of view, in that Paedos deliberately chose that sort of work to give them opportunities. Thank God that the vast majority of people who chose to work with Children are normal kind and caring people.
A teenager on the other hand is less likely to be sexually interested, but unless having a bunch of younger siblings would be less able to look after that child if problems arose.
Now I am doing this next bit from memory.
About 7-8 years ago I read up quite a lot about what motivates and starts the "interest in young children" urge. The one thing that I remember was that it tended to start in the mid to later twenties. This was for blokes. Dunno about women.
To remind you, once an abuse has taken place, it is too late. The damage is done. Better to be safe than sorry.
I hope that you are not going to use the "GRINDING DOWN" technique on me stephen, cos I dont feel inclined to keep typing for the sake of it.
You have got some full and fairly comprehensive answers, stephen. why i think it dangerous to leave a stranger with YOUR children in an enclosed and hidden place like a curtained and locked flat with knowledge of how long you will be away.
Please drop it now.
