I was aware that the Roma originated in India but as many roma have settled in Romania the line has become a little blurred which must be irritating for the Romanians. I have a very pleasant and intelligent Romanian colleague(female) so I can imagine that your daughter in law is a very nice person..no offence intended
I just feel, as I said, that Roma and Romania have got blurred because of the name - there are indeed Roma in Romania (3.2% of the population) but more in other European countries - eg 4.7% of the population in Bulgaria.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Roma_(Romani_subgroup) is informative.
I simply wanted to correct the confusion of the names of Roma and Romania. Incidentally many people assume that Romanian is an Eastern European / Slavic language - it is not; it is a Romance language
There are so many negative things said about Romania that I immediately come to the defence of the people and the country, as all those I have met have been charming and friendly and I have enjoyed two very interesting visits there. My daughter-in-law is indeed very nice, very bright and she and my son are credits to their countries!
Now lets return to the subject here