I've been forcing myself, since the whole OP case began, to give him the benefit of the doubt as much as possible and I now find myself in a curious place, whereby I am mentally prepared to give his story a degree of plausibility. I'm not saying it's likely, but I do find myself thinking it's plausible.
The really odd thing now is that I find myself wondering if the McCann supporters feel about them the way I do about OP...? Which is that until he's convicted, he's innocent, whereas many on this thread are already talking as though he's guilty and I find that somewhat distasteful.
I do find myself questioning whether I am right to continue to be quite so prejudiced against the McCanns as I maybe am being? For all the lack of plausibility I give their stories, I can see a clear correlation with how those that support them must feel.
It's really weird being on this side of the fence - it's remarkably easy to excuse and accept things from OP's defence that others clearly feel are completely beyond reason or credibility.
This is a very honest post, C Edwards, and much appreciated.
I too have found myself making comparisons between these two cases, radically different as they are in most ways.
One similarity however is the question of whether or not the world is being manipulated by the person / people at the centre of the accusations and events (i.e. OP / the McCanns).
For months, I have been challenging posters on the McCann thread to provide an example of a case of a person / people stringing along governments, law enforcement and courts systems, international media, not to mention their own friends and families, all to the tune of millions, because I find it extremely hard to believe the idea that the McCanns, or anyone, would go to such phenomenal efforts to perpetuate a lie, and would be able to tolerate the stresses and strains that that lie placed them under.
IF ( and we have to say ' if ' at this point) Oscar Pistorius is guilty of premeditated murder, he is doing just that, and providing us with a very good example of just what lengths a person will go to to attempt to save their reputation.
If he is indeed found guilty of premeditated murder, he will never accept the verdict - and the fight and the charade, if that is what it is, will go on and on.