The Real Jeremy Bamber

[Holly Goodhead]

Sorry to jump in here...but how can one be attracted to someone’s personality when they’ve never met them, Holly?

I've no idea but it has been said.

[APRIL]

When you believed in JB's innocence, and posted in support of him, were you ever attracted to him in terms of his looks or personality?

It's not impossible, Holly. I was surrounded by males -of all ages- of his type, most of them good looking, all well mannered, courteous, well educated and wealthy, and local!!! However, for all that, the irrefutable draw, which I can't separate myself from, is the fact of his adoption.

PS I never saw him in a sexual way. He was too much of a boy to attract me in that way.

[ISpyWithMyEye]

I've no idea but it has been said.

And what attracts YOU to him, Holly?

Going by this forum alone, every single time I come in here you’re always online. And that’s without you contributing to the blue forum (if you still do), including all the other social media forums...

You appear obsessed for some reason...

Maybe Jeremy fills a void in your life

[John]

Sorry to jump in here...but how can one be attracted to someone’s personality when they’ve never met them, Holly?

It's the illusion!

[John]

And what attracts YOU to him, Holly?

Going by this forum alone, every single time I come in here you’re always online. And that’s without you contributing to the blue forum (if you still do), including all the other social media forums...

You appear obsessed for some reason...

Maybe Jeremy fills a void in your life

Careful Ispywithmybigeye, no disparaging comments please.

[APRIL]

It's the illusion!

And for some, the anticipation!!!!

[Caroline]

It's not impossible, Holly. I was surrounded by males -of all ages- of his type, most of them good looking, all well mannered, courteous, well educated and wealthy, and local!!! However, for all that, the irrefutable draw, which I can't separate myself from, is the fact of his adoption.

PS I never saw him in a sexual way. He was too much of a boy to attract me in that way.

He wouldn't have lasted an hour in the area I grew up in 

[Nicholas]

I’ve never understood these women who become infatuated with evil convicted murderers. I mean, they’re not much a catch are they?🤪

There has to something seriously lacking with these women...and that’s why the psychopaths respond. They know the women are either mentally ill, hard-up for a man; deluded in some way...and so they tell them what they want to hear and then start using them for gifts & money, and to help their cause to try and worm out of prison.

I read about one woman in America who insisted the murderer she’d started writing to was innocent, and that he was lovely, wonderful, misunderstood and had been set up — and he was eventually freed. To her joy he was actually freed and to repay her after moving in with her and sponging off her for a few weeks he sliced both her ears off. Good judgement!

So what are the lawyers ‘lacking’ who support these men?

[Nicholas]

There appears to be many women he’s done this to since being in prison.

I suppose now he’s aged (quite badly too, I read) he’s having to communicate with whoever writes to him, which must anger him inside

Are there any other women on here who’ve suffered the same disgraceful behaviour from Jeremy Bamaber when he’s realised he can no longer use them?

He’s done it to lawyers too

[Nicholas]

I know this is from 2014, so you may not read this, Daisy. But I’d like to say what a brave and soft-hearted lady you are: you weren’t to know Jeremy Bamber was using you, and that must have hurt you terribly when he abused you and said he’d “never liked you”.

His callous, controlling and deceptive true-self came to the fore, and like all evil psychopaths they can’t hold their fury in when they don’t get their own way. He’s very money-orientated, and realising you were comfortably off he obviously gave you a big sob story. He’s done it to so many people, and will continue to do so.

It’s staggering how he DEMANDED money from you, and ordered you to take out a bank loan — the arrogance of him is breathtaking. I suspect he got angry with you and swore at you because he realised you weren’t as stupid as he thought. Money is his God, and it would be interesting to know how many soft-hearted people who fell for his lies sent him money and when they stopped, he discarded them.

And for someone who professes he can prove his innocence (and he still hasn’t since his last contact to you in 2014), he would have jumped at the chance of using Maylove Forensics: they’re one of the top — if not THE top — Forensic agencies in the UK; used both by police and lawyers. It’s obvious the reason he didn’t want to use them was that they’d throw up exactly the same results that the forensic team did when he was found guilty, and the blood flake had 17 markers out a possible 20 markers that proved beyond doubt the blood was Sheila’s. It seems Jeremy wanted to use some obscure forensic agency in America, who he’d probably been told weren’t reputable...I think you can guess what I’m implying.

I also believe he gave you a sob story pretending that he had various, serious health problems. It’s all part of his manipulation. A journalist went to see him just a couple of years ago (I will provide the source), and said that Jeremy “bounced” into the visiting area; that he was in good spirits and upbeat; and clearly worked out regularly in the gym as his arms and chest showed. He even said he goes to the gym regularly, and he also has a good appetite. So what “serious” illness/health issues did he claim to have? They certainly don’t stop him lifting weights and running on treadmills. Nor are they in his mind when he says he will be free one day and wants to visit Australia, India and so on...

He’s a leech and a parasite, and doesn’t care how much he hurts ANYONE. Like yourself, who is sweet, kind, soft-natured, he didn’t care how much pain he caused you when he said he’d “never really liked you” — and to your face too!

He’s as vile now as he was when he murdered all his family. Cold, evil, nasty, aggressive — and is still unable to hold back his anger and fury. I’ve read so many accounts similar to yours, so you’re just one of many he’s used then discarded. I still find it astonishing that anyone at all can th8nk he’s innocent, or a nice man, when he’s he was found guilty of five murders, and treats people like sh*t when they no longer play to his tune.

What about how he and those around him are manipulating his case papers in order to present some kind of alternative narrative?

[Nicholas]

It's the illusion!

And some people choose to feed into the illusion; what’s that all about?

[Nicholas]

And what attracts YOU to him, Holly?

Going by this forum alone, every single time I come in here you’re always online. And that’s without you contributing to the blue forum (if you still do), including all the other social media forums...

You appear obsessed for some reason...

Maybe Jeremy fills a void in your life

This forum was started on the back of the Bamber case.

[Nicholas]

You really are the Jackie Preece of this forum.

You're personal, insulting and very rude.

Can you rein your tongue in a bit!

Tongue?

[Nicholas]

It's the illusion!

It’s not an ‘illusion’ that Bamber’s attempting to manipulate the paperwork in his case but Mark Newby’s seemingly fallen for it; or has he?

[ISpyWithMyEye]

It's the illusion!

Illusion?

But he’s a mass murderer — he shot dead two little boys! And killed his parents and sister.

What the hell is attractive about THAT?!