The idea of a joint enterprise case is a very real one. It would have gone to court if things had turned out differently and the jury would of been faced with the question to answer as to whether if Julie was aware Jeremy was planning the criems, why didn't she speak up?
Did she not want to speak up?
Or did she not take him seriously?
This is what I struggle with. I know it's nowhere near on the scale of what happened at Whitehouse Farm, but I have been in the position where someone I was friends/colleagues with was basically admitted to me and others that he was abusing his wife and nobody believed him. Nobody. He was funny, intelligent, a great worker and always ready to listen to people - everyone trusted him. He ended up being arrested and imprisoned after he tried to strangle her, and I've never forgiven myself for not doing something. It's incredibly hard to explain, especially on a forum, but we're talking about 15-20 people that were completely suckered by him. I don't believe he was a psychopath, which seems to be the go-to explanation for this kind of behaviour, but I do believe he had a personality disorder of some type which allowed him to rationalise his behaviour. This is part of the problem I have with Jeremy Bamber - people want to talk in absolutes about whether he is a psychopath but unfortunately there are shades of grey with psychological disorders, and they can't be diagnosed on a forum. It's no good telling me what Psychiatrists DIDN'T say about him - I want to know what they DID say. OK, he may not be a psychopath but does he suffer from another personality disorder?
In short, I believe that JB could have flatly told JM that he was going to kill his family and shown her bullets with their names engraved on them. Whether she could bring herself to believe he was going to do it is a different matter altogether.
I am intrigued to know why you believe that Bamber was NOT a psychopath when all the evidence points to the notion that he is. As an ex health professional it struck me that alot of people have entirely the wrong impression of a psychopath and how a psychopath thinks.. Most envision a typical psychopath to be either a deranged serial killer or a dribbling mad man or somewhere in between. Of course both of these are correct but only a small fraction are actually of this rather obvious type. A psychopath by there very nature must be almost chamelion-like and blend-in seemlessly into the environment. They must have the ability to manipulate and con others. Therefore they are adept at building up trust, giving out complements to others, pushing the right buttons, all in order for them to get out of you what they want.
Most commonly, a typical psychopath will never kill anyone, but inevitably will destroy many lives and leave a trail of devastation in their wake in both the workplace and at home. Their motives are usually money and power but it could also be other evil endevours such as systematically destroying a work colleague psychologically . From this the work-place psychopath derives great pleasure and a feeling of power.
Bamber is of the small percentage of psychopaths that can and do commit murder in order to get what they want. The lives he took meant nothing to him, he gave it no more thought than the average person would give by stepping on an ant. Bamber has absolutely no conscience and therefore he is incapable of remorse, sympathy or empathy for the innocent victims of his crimes. Most psychopaths, although without a conscience may think twice about undertaking a crime so dastardly and dispicable as the one Bamber committed. Not because they have any compassion for their victims , or lack the necessary ruthlessness to commit such a heinous act but rather they would be concerned about the punishment meted out for such a crime. Bamber has an element to his psychopathy common to murderous psychopaths - recklessness and impulsivity. Put simply, Bamber cannot think through the implications of his acts; not only on other people, but on himself.
It is estimated than 1 in 50 people display some form of psychopathy and 1 person in 100 has dangerous psychopathic traits. However, it it difficult to research for obvious reasons.
I am sure this sentence will appeal to the narcissistic element of Bamber's personality - but he is quite unique. Thankfully there are few quite like Jeremy Bamber. To my mind he is a murdering, scheming, cold-blooded psychopath. There is NO other type of personality disorder that would even come close to giving an explanation for Bamber's utter callous, deceiptive, cunning, glib, superficial, manipulative, arrogant, sense of entitlement, greedy and murderous personality. He is what he is............a narcissistic psychopath.