If you call for police help you expect them to help, if they don't in your opinion do enough or anything to help then you've every right to criticise them, or are foreign police above criticism in your view? When Portuguese people criticise the McCanns' parenting skills and ridicule them is that xenophobia?
The police didn't help? Who says? The T9? Did they call everyone they could think of to say the police were doing nothing or not? How long did they give them? One hour, two hours, or did they criticise them immediately? Were off duty police called in to search all night or not? Did they continue to search for seven days or not? Was all leave cancelled or not? I prefer to look at what happened and then make my mind up, whichever country the police come from.
Portuguese people were shocked by the T9 idea of good parenting and so were a lot of UK people too, and with good reason. Their spin doctors and apologists made out it was 'normal' in the UK, and I object to that, it's not.
Have Portuguese people ridiculed the McCanns?