Should Jeremy Bamber be allowed to cause distress to relatives of the deceased?

[Vertigo Swirl]

A few years back we drove up to WHF and the various sites: seawall, JB's cottage and had Sunday lunch in JB's local pub 

They're all in my neck of the woods.

A veritable Ghouls Tour.  Mind you, I once visited Nick Drake's grave in a little village in The Black Country.  Does that make me a ghoul or just a fan paying my respects?

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A few years back we drove up to WHF and the various sites: seawall, JB's cottage and had Sunday lunch in JB's local pub 

They're all in my neck of the woods.

The last time I was there, one of the waitresses told me that there had once been "Jeremy Bamber" coach trips which invaded the village, stopping at all the sites 'of interest'. I guess The Chequers did very well out of it.

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A veritable Ghouls Tour.  Mind you, I once visited Nick Drake's grave in a little village in The Black Country.  Does that make me a ghoul or just a fan paying my respects?

Nick Drake was a wonderful genius. Jeremy Bamber shot two little boys while they slept at their Nanny and Grandad's.

[ISpyWithMyEye]

No, but there's nothing you could do to stop them descending.  It's like those people who booked holidays to PdL specifically because of their fascination with Madeleine McCann and who went to ogle all the "sights" like the apartment she disappeared from.

Good grief!!

Did people actually DO that?!

I’ve never followed the MM case, though obviously know about it... but my word, how sick is that?!

[ISpyWithMyEye]

Here is an interesting question which has come up on another thread.  We could extend this question to people like Trudy Benjamin too whose presence at June and Nevill's graveside making a video can only be seen as being in very bad taste.

If your aunt, uncle or sister were murdered in such a manner, would you want these gouls at their graveside?

I’ve lost loved ones in tragic circumstances, and if ANY ghoul, especially the supporter of the person who caused their death came anywhere NEAR my loved ones graves, I’d make sure they’d never set foot there again!

It makes my blood boil!

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Good grief!!

Did people actually DO that?!

I’ve never followed the MM case, though obviously know about it... but my word, how sick is that?!

One of our very own forum members who lives there will happily take you on a tour of “Maddieville” as he calls it.  I don’t think he charges for his services.

[ISpyWithMyEye]

The problem is, as the General said, it's not illegal. The only way to stop it would be to have them re-interred at WHF, but there could be a problem with that. It MAY require Jeremy's permission

It’s got F*** all to do with HIM!

He lost rights to EVERYTHING when he murdered them!

[ISpyWithMyEye]

Then I guess we must rely upon their better nature. Mmmm?

They don’t have a better nature, April.. Mmmmm?

[ISpyWithMyEye]

That's comforting to know.

[ISpyWithMyEye]

According to the CT, it is them and not the family that tend the graves but even if that is so, it was in very poor taste.

The answer to the topic Should Jeremy Bamber be allowed to cause distress to relatives of the deceased? is, of course not, but he will continue to try through his constant smear campaigns against Sheila, the integrity and honesty of the relatives that got the farm and Colin Caffell, who must never be allowed to grieve quietly when he has the temerity to think Bamber is guilty of murdering his sons.

What a wretched man Bamber really is.

Hear hear, CC

And that goes to those wretched supporters of his who pretend they’re seeking justice for Sheila, when they know they’re not

They’re as sick as him

[ISpyWithMyEye]

Jeremy may do mostly as he pleases in an attempt to clear his name.

. How can he clear his name when he’s guilty?

[ISpyWithMyEye]

They must take the view any publicity is good publicity!

Totally misguided and completely inappropriate imo.  The graveside reading followed hot on the heels off 'Bakeoff' which was criticised by Rosie Dixon, CEO of After Murder and Manslaughter charity:

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-essex-33521825

As RD said fair enough if they want to campaign but don't do it this way.

It’s obvious he and they don’t care what they do as long as they get him publicity, but all they’re doing is showing how evil he and they are,

So I’m afraid, in this case, “any publicity is NOT good publicity”

They’re simply highlighting what a sick a psychopath he is

[ISpyWithMyEye]

A few years back we drove up to WHF and the various sites: seawall, JB's cottage and had Sunday lunch in JB's local pub 

They're all in my neck of the woods.

Did you meet any other ghouls or weird obsessives?

[ISpyWithMyEye]

The last time I was there, one of the waitresses told me that there had once been "Jeremy Bamber" coach trips which invaded the village, stopping at all the sites 'of interest'. I guess The Chequers did very well out of it.

Don’t belive that for a minute, April

The waitress must have been taking the pee...

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Don’t belive that for a minute, April

The waitress must have been taking the pee...

Why do you believe I shouldn't Spy?