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If sexual abuse is reported without any proof of the alleged crime and only the words of a child, what do you think happens next?
And if they approached the Press, still with no proof, what do you think they would be told?
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Times have changed( thank goodness) and children now are more likely to confide in their parents, but I wonder how the story below would compare today…….
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A man with 4 children had been sexually abusing his family and other children too until his eldest child was old enough to leave home and she reported it, but there was no proof of abuse and therefore nothing was done. The remaining family too afraid and ashamed to disclose their experiences, kept quiet.
The paedophiles wife left, taking her other children who totally turned their backs on their father, not even attending his funeral.. Three of them now live abroad.
The paedophile remarried and had 3 more children, who were probably also violated,.
The paedophile complained to his sister that his second wife was trying to poison him and shortly after, he died of a heart attack.
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His daughter by his first marriage, who was brave enough to report him is now a grandma, but her daughter in law will not leave her child with her….Why?? I guess this has something to do with it……………………….
Just one part of the painful stigma suffered by an abused child of course…..
History repeating itself as a possibility, and is often told by psychologists etc .
As if the pain of distrust, guilt, shame, feeling dirty and it must have been partly my fault, isn’t enough to suffer for the crime committed by another.
If his daughter had managed to get the press to publish about her abusive father, what difference would it have made since the area all knew of his daughter‘s accusation and if the story had made to the press …. they could have been dealing with slander. So NO GO
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Now if this occurred in a foreign country and it was an unknown stranger, do you not think it would have been taken even less seriously?
All those families who have been violated in Portugal and it never hit the news, now hear that it is being investigated by UK police, so despite the stigma that may affect the family if names are leaked, they came forward………………………………...................................…
Well done to those brave enough to have done this.
