Are you satisfied that Jeremy Bamber tried to sell nude photos of his murdered sister to the Sun, or do you reckon the Sun just printed a pack of lies as Holly and G-Unit seem to be suggesting?
Would you kindly, again, just remind us how that proves he is a murderer?
Please hear me out....Before you say "It's part of a pattern of behaviour", the problem is that it isn't
suspicious. Applying a pattern to this sort of behaviour is just an expression of bias. Some of what Jeremy did was nasty, I agree, and also I agree the attempt to sell the nude pictures probably happened and that Jeremy was a nasty piece of work, but again, it doesn't make him murderer.
Likewise:
Having a hearty breakfast - normal behaviour.
Carrying on as if nothing has happened - normal behaviour, especially for an English male. Being socially reserved and taciturn in this sense was still a pronounced quirk of English men back then and Jeremy was brought up this way.
Putting the dog down quickly just because you don't want to keep it - perfectly normal behaviour, especially during that era. Jeremy was an Essex farmer, not a touchy-feely metropolitan type. I am a dog lover and I have put down dogs in similar situations on a similar pretext.
Faking emotional reactions at the crime scene, faking grief and faking it at the funeral - normal behaviour. Emotionally-normative people do this. People can't summon up crying and grieving on demand, and as a result, they sometimes feel pressured to fake it. Not being upset at the death of a close relative is quite common. Not everybody likes their relatives. It's not a crime.
Grinning at the funeral after faking it - normal behaviour, as above.
Talking dirty to your girlfriend at the funeral and saying inappropriate things in front of Colin on the way to the crematorium - again, normal behaviour, albeit callous, immature and inappropriate.
Selling off personal effects - perfectly normal behaviour in that situation, and the relatives behaved similarly.
Going on holiday abroad - normal behaviour, and he came back.
Trying to sell nude pictures of your dead sister to a s..mmy tabloid - DESPICABLE BEHAVIOUR, but not suspicious. Sheila was not his biological sister and maybe he just didn't care about her? It's not nice to dislike and not care about close relatives, but it's not a crime.
Other behavioural quirks I picked up from Colin Caffell's book, such as Jeremy aping Colin's behaviour - all normal. Why does Colin take issue with Jeremy taking cues from him? Maybe because Colin is looking at it in retrospect and judging Jeremy's behaviour by what he now knows. But I can imagine myself doing just the same as Jeremy in that situation. Some people are 'socially autistic/unaware'. I would not know how to behave at a funeral and would look for cues from somebody more sensitive like Colin and I would probably copy his behaviour. Maybe Jeremy should have confided in Colin about his disabilities/insecurities? But is Jeremy the type to do that?
Burning clothes - SUSPICIOUS BEHAVIOUR. On this point, I agree with you and disagree with Holly and the other pro-innocent people. Holly, I think, has tried to explain this by saying that Jeremy would not want to see people in his dead relatives' clothes. That's a cogent surface explanation, but I'm not entirely satisfied on this point. Frankly, most people don't care about other people wearing their dead relatives' clothes, assuming they would even stop to notice. How would you even tell or know? I am wondering what Jeremy was burning and why.
Jeremy Bamber was a nasty character. But I didn't like my parents either. I hated my mother and I disliked my father. I helped myself to cocoa-pops, jam on toast and a large mug of coffee after hearing about my schizophrenic father's death, after faking being upset about it, then being genuinely upset for a bit, then going back to work and forgetting about it. In two days, I'd forgotten my father completely and didn't care.
Am I a murderer? A rhetorical question, but most of Jeremy's behaviour you are highlighting isn't suspicious. Whether you think there is a pattern or not, if the behaviour isn't suspicious, then it's just an exercise in biasing.
Reminder - I say all this as somebody who thinks he probably did it.