Oh this is interesting G.
The poor mites were stressed having to take the children out for dinner/food? or , OR was it because they wanted peace to have a drink . This was a planned event- it really does come across as they couldn't be bothered with their children. Dump them off during the day, Dump them off to bed a night. OMG How cruel.
They seemed determined to get things done there way, expecting people to jump for them...hmm
I suppose it depends on what you think a parent's role is and what you see as an acceptable balance between the needs of the parent and those of the child. I always wanted to be there for all the firsts; first smile, first swing, first sight of the sea, first boat ride. I also wanted to be sure my child learned my standards, was subjected to my idea of discipline and was comforted by me if they were upset or hurt. Handing any of that over to others wasn't part of my agenda, but seems common these days. Non-family members spend more time with some children than their parents do.
There did seem to be a sense of entitlement.
Anyway, back to the bookings. What does Kate say:
Today [Sunday] we’d been able to make a dinner reservation for the adult contingent at the poolside Tapas restaurant. Apparently, this restaurant, a canopied outdoor addition to the bar, catered for only up to fifteen diners in the evenings, and reservations could not be made until the morning of the day in question.
In spite of what we’d been told about booking the Tapas restaurant, Rachael managed to get a table for nine at 8.30pm pencilled in for the rest of the week after having a word with the receptionist at the pool and Tapas area.
to explain why she was bending the rules a bit, the receptionist had added the reason for our request: we wanted to eat close to our apartments as we were leaving our young children alone there and checking on them intermittently.
Madeleine, Kate McCann.
This isn't what Rachael or the receptionist said. The receptionist said Sunday and a man booked for the week, Rachael didn't mention booking for the whole week.