Maggie is at it again I see:
"She 'lied' by pretending JB was innocent, staying with him at Colin's flat after the deaths. If she knew Jeremy Bamber was guilty at that time which aparrently she did then she was highly devious and lied by her actions. How can you not find her action appalling? Colin had lost his two beloved boys, JB and JM go to stay with him no doubt supposedly to support and comfort him. If JB is guilty JM knowingly chose to play along with Bamber and deceive Colin. in my book that's living a lie and Amaral. 
http://jeremybamberforum.co.uk/index.php/topic,9408.msg438255.html#msg438255
"Men use a range of techniques to achieve coercive control. One of the most valuable
and commonly used techniques is the disguise. This means that men will behave and
present one way when abusing the woman in private (a terroriser), and very differently
when in public, at work or socialising (a charmer). This ability to put on a disguise not
only prevents people detecting his abuse but also acts to confuse and isolate the woman
further. She thinks, ‘maybe there’s something wrong with me because he’s acting so
nice with them.’ In fact in social situations he is cleverly able to act both as a respectable
member of society while sending secret intimidating signals to the woman that only
she will understand.
https://www.whiteribbon.org.au/wp-content/uploads/2016/10/From_violence_to_coercive_control_Fisher_2011.pdf"This is exactly how I perceive Jeremy Bamber.
Statistics suggests an abuser is 60-80% more likely to use coercive control over a partner as opposed to physical assault which is 20 - 40% more likely
So whilst it has been suggested Jeremy Bamber hasn't presented with examples of physical violence, which I disagree with, he has displayed high levels of coercive control.
Many people have questioned why Julie Mugford stayed with Jeremy Bamber for as long as she did and why she didn't go to the police sooner. The answers to these questions are complex but again can be explained in terms of the coercive control she had been subjected to by Bamber, much of which would have been invisible to outsiders looking in.http://jeremybamberforum.co.uk/index.php/topic,8069.0.html