UK police guilty of flawed tunnel vision in hunt for Maddie McCann

[Eleanor]

Theres loads of scientific evidence to support it........harbouring unpleasnt thoughts about others has the opposite effect.

Sort of self perpetuating you mean?

[Mr Gray]

Sort of self perpetuating you mean?

its actually physiological rather than psychological...and it is self perpetuating. Mindfulnees is now being used in mainstream psychology

[Alfie]

i didnt bother to  watch it

Why not?  You seemed rather excited about it before it aired.

[Alfie]

But what does it achieve?

What does love achieve?  Wouldn't it all be better if we were emotionless robots?

[Brietta]

The McCann's problems are self induced.

"Although they left their daughter alone with her siblings in the apartment, sometimes for extended periods, they were keeping an eye on them. We must also recognise that the parents are already paying a heavy penalty for their carelessness."

– Public prosecutor's report

[stephen25000]

"Although they left their daughter alone with her siblings in the apartment, sometimes for extended periods, they were keeping an eye on them. We must also recognise that the parents are already paying a heavy penalty for their carelessness."

– Public prosecutor's report

Really ??

The only recorded incidence of either of the McCann's checking their children, was once each, on the night she disappeared.

[stephen25000]

The following link seems a bit familiar.


https://zenhabits.net/a-guide-to-cultivating-compassion-in-your-life-with-7-practices/


' Benefits
Why develop compassion in your life? Well, there are scientific studies that suggest there are physical benefits to practicing compassion — people who practice it produce 100 percent more DHEA, which is a hormone that counteracts the aging process, and 23 percent less cortisol — the “stress hormone.” '

&%+((£

[jassi]

The following link seems a bit familiar.


https://zenhabits.net/a-guide-to-cultivating-compassion-in-your-life-with-7-practices/


' Benefits
Why develop compassion in your life? Well, there are scientific studies that suggest there are physical benefits to practicing compassion — people who practice it produce 100 percent more DHEA, which is a hormone that counteracts the aging process, and 23 percent less cortisol — the “stress hormone.” '

&%+((£

The wonders of Google.  Every one can be an expert

[stephen25000]

The wonders of Google.  Every one can be an expert

Indeed.

[Mr Gray]

The wonders of Google.  Every one can be an expert

can think they are an expert

[Alfie]

The wonders of Google.  Everyone can be an expert

You posed the question - what is achieved by showing compassion, may I ask what you what you think is achieved by making bitchy comments about the parents of a missing child on a fairly regular basis?  Obviously it amuses you to do so but is there anything else?

[Mr Gray]

You posed the question - what is achieved by showing compassion, may I ask what you what you think is achieved by making bitchy comments about the parents of a missing child on a fairly regular basis?  Obviously it amuses you to do so but is there anything else?

I could give a very good example of what is acheived by posting bitchy comments day in day out but I fear I would be banned.....lets just say its not really good for the psyche

[stephen25000]

You mean like this...............


“I know I'm not scared but that man has caused us so much upset and anger because of how he has treated my beautiful Madeleine and the search to find her. He deserves to be miserable and feel fear."

[Mr Gray]

You mean like this...............


“I know I'm not scared but that man has caused us so much upset and anger because of how he has treated my beautiful Madeleine and the search to find her. He deserves to be miserable and feel fear."

what do you think that proves...it is often difficult to feel compassion against those who have caused you  a lot of hurt.......and dont bother taking the next quote out of context

[Mr Gray]

I enjoy the benefits of practicing compassion and in my experience the less compassionate people are the less happy they are....dont take that personally...just think about it and perhaps try it