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Offline Erngath

Re: UK police guilty of flawed tunnel vision in hunt for Maddie McCann
« Reply #165 on: May 16, 2017, 09:43:01 PM »
Having reread the original post heading there should really be a question mark at the end of the sentence, otherwise it does read as a statement of fact which may or may not be true.
Deal with the failings of others as gently as with your own.

Offline Alice Purjorick

"Navigating the difference between weird but normal grief and truly suspicious behaviour is the key for any detective worth his salt.". ….Sarah Bailey

Offline jassi

Re: UK police guilty of flawed tunnel vision in hunt for Maddie McCann
« Reply #167 on: May 16, 2017, 09:52:03 PM »
Having reread the original post heading there should really be a question mark at the end of the sentence, otherwise it does read as a statement of fact which may or may not be true.

Spoken like a true pedant. Congratulations.
I believe everything. And l believe nothing.
I suspect everyone. And l suspect no one.
I gather the facts, examine the clues... and before   you know it, the case is solved!"

Or maybe not -

OG have been pushed out by the Germans who have reserved all the deck chairs for the foreseeable future

Offline Mr Gray

Re: UK police guilty of flawed tunnel vision in hunt for Maddie McCann
« Reply #168 on: May 16, 2017, 09:54:48 PM »
Why?

 As you dont seem to be the sort who has an interest in develping compassion then you would not see its benefits to those on the receiving end

Offline Erngath

Re: UK police guilty of flawed tunnel vision in hunt for Maddie McCann
« Reply #169 on: May 16, 2017, 09:55:49 PM »
Spoken like a true pedant. Congratulations.

Thank you.
Deal with the failings of others as gently as with your own.

Offline Mr Gray

Re: UK police guilty of flawed tunnel vision in hunt for Maddie McCann
« Reply #170 on: May 16, 2017, 09:57:44 PM »
Spoken like a true pedant. Congratulations.

displaying true bias....you did not express any objection to the thread that started this....although in my view that thread was far from pedantic.....more an attempt to stop the realisation that abduction is the real reason for maddies disappearance....imo of course

Offline Mr Gray

Re: UK police guilty of flawed tunnel vision in hunt for Maddie McCann
« Reply #171 on: May 16, 2017, 10:03:22 PM »
It's quite ironic that those who support Amarals right to say Maddie died in the apartment and her parents staged an abduction want to prevent posters saying Maddie was abducted

Offline Alice Purjorick

Re: UK police guilty of flawed tunnel vision in hunt for Maddie McCann
« Reply #172 on: May 16, 2017, 10:04:07 PM »
As you dont seem to be the sort who has an interest in develping compassion then you would not see its benefits to those on the receiving end

That shows how little you know then.
"Navigating the difference between weird but normal grief and truly suspicious behaviour is the key for any detective worth his salt.". ….Sarah Bailey

Offline jassi

Re: UK police guilty of flawed tunnel vision in hunt for Maddie McCann
« Reply #173 on: May 16, 2017, 10:06:09 PM »
displaying true bias....you did not express any objection to the thread that started this....although in my view that thread was far from pedantic.....more an attempt to stop the realisation that abduction is the real reason for maddies disappearance....imo of course

Why should I have objected. I didn't even enter the thread until page 4, by which time things had moved on a little.

As far as abduction is concerned, its bolloxs,  IMO, but I don't mind you mentioning as often as you  like just as long as you don't try to pretend that it is fact.
I believe everything. And l believe nothing.
I suspect everyone. And l suspect no one.
I gather the facts, examine the clues... and before   you know it, the case is solved!"

Or maybe not -

OG have been pushed out by the Germans who have reserved all the deck chairs for the foreseeable future

Offline Mr Gray

Re: UK police guilty of flawed tunnel vision in hunt for Maddie McCann
« Reply #174 on: May 16, 2017, 10:08:19 PM »
That shows how little you know then.

I would be thrilled to be wrong but surely if you practiced compassion you would see the result it has on the recipients

Offline Mr Gray

Re: UK police guilty of flawed tunnel vision in hunt for Maddie McCann
« Reply #175 on: May 16, 2017, 10:10:17 PM »
Why should I have objected. I didn't even enter the thread until page 4, by which time things had moved on a little.

As far as abduction is concerned, its bolloxs,  IMO, but I don't mind you mentioning as often as you  like just as long as you don't try to pretend that it is fact.
Why should it bother you that I think abduction is fact
I'm not at all bothered what you think

Alfie

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Re: UK police guilty of flawed tunnel vision in hunt for Maddie McCann
« Reply #176 on: May 16, 2017, 10:20:48 PM »
Why should I have objected. I didn't even enter the thread until page 4, by which time things had moved on a little.

As far as abduction is concerned, its bolloxs,  IMO, but I don't mind you mentioning as often as you  like just as long as you don't try to pretend that it is fact.
if abduction is bollocks in your opinion, what do you view as amore plausible and logical theory, and why?

Offline Alice Purjorick

Re: UK police guilty of flawed tunnel vision in hunt for Maddie McCann
« Reply #177 on: May 16, 2017, 10:58:49 PM »
I would be thrilled to be wrong but surely if you practiced compassion you would see the result it has on the recipients

Would I?
What good do you think my pity/sympathy will be to someone, who inside is screaming with emotional pain?
God preserve us from the "I know how you must be suffering, but time is a good healer" brigade.
"Navigating the difference between weird but normal grief and truly suspicious behaviour is the key for any detective worth his salt.". ….Sarah Bailey

Offline Mr Gray

Re: UK police guilty of flawed tunnel vision in hunt for Maddie McCann
« Reply #178 on: May 16, 2017, 11:02:09 PM »
Would I?
What good do you think my pity/sympathy will be to someone, who inside is screaming with emotional pain?
God preserve us from the "I know how you must be suffering, but time is a good healer" brigade.

Looks like I was right the first time
Time is a good healer though some pains will never be anywhere near totally healed
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Offline Erngath

Re: UK police guilty of flawed tunnel vision in hunt for Maddie McCann
« Reply #179 on: May 16, 2017, 11:13:04 PM »
Would I?
What good do you think my pity/sympathy will be to someone, who inside is screaming with emotional pain?
God preserve us from the "I know how you must be suffering, but time is a good healer" brigade.

Why do you believe that sympathy equates with pity or that anyone who offers their sympathy believes they know "how you must be suffering". My experience is that people will feel very inadequate when expressing comfort/sympathy because they do realise that unless they have shared the same loss/tragedy then words are very inadequate but that is all they have to offer,
Deal with the failings of others as gently as with your own.