I don't agree with Tony Bennett's actions, but I haven't seen any posts from him which contained personal attacks of the kind posted by Nessling. If you have please provide cites (by PM if you prefer).
I have to reply to you G Unit, even though I don't agree that this thread serves any purpose apart from going over what Nigel Nessling did, it will not make us any more aware of how people behave in private at all.
As for being abusive and nasty online, I can't see that being a red flag to anyone that that person could not be a friendly person off line and have such a disgusting 'hobby'.
I really don't agree about what you say about Tony Bennett either, no he doesn't swear at anyone, he makes himself out to be a upstanding citizen doesn't he? A Christian? Only wanting truth for Madeleien. Though what upstanding Christian, writes a letter pretending to be a dead Madeleine? goading and torturing her family? Then to the words of 'Silent Night' mock that they may go to prison. Is that ok to you?