If you care to read my first post re this you will see the conversation started as a result of the Portuguese woman telling her colleague about how her partner was amazed by her family's long get togethers over dinner. I wanted to find out how a Portuguese person viewed the McCanns dining without the children who were left home alone. You might think it odd but judging by how the woman responded I would say she didn't and was more than happy to engage.
http://miscarriageofjustice.co/index.php?topic=11042.msg565498#msg565498
In my opinion the cultural differences between the Portuguese and the British made it very difficult for the Portuguese to understand and accept the McCann's method of 'childcare'. It was difficult for many British people to understand too, despite what Jane Tanner said.
It is normal (culturally, traditionally, education/examples seen) [for] English tourists to leave, for some time, their small children alone in the bedroom/apartment to sleep while the parents are absent, normally guaranteeing that it is done for short periods of time (15/30 minutes). At those times there is a sporadic check, in time, of the places where the children are.
https://www.mccannpjfiles.co.uk/PJ/JANE-TANNER-10MAY.htmWhat, I wonder, did Jane mean? As far as I know the group she was with were the only people staying at the Ocean Club that week who decided to do that. That makes it anything but normal imo.