When Madeleine is Found.

[kizzy]

The hardest part for the parents is to sit and wait for news.   In this country we have the Liaison officer who stays with the parents to help them cope,  reassuring them and giving them information as and when they receive it.  The McCann's didn't have this it must have been horrendous for them.

OK so you did say something - disregard last comment.

As far as I can remember didn't they refuse any help from liaison officers?

[The General]

Neither April Jones mother or father went out to search,  does that mean they knew she was dead?  Of course not.

What? You've definitely skipped some posts there kid.

[Lace]

What? You've definitely skipped some posts there kid.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mDGLgsViM0c
They were told not to go out and search for April

[Mr Gray]

As I previously said - I would want her in MY arms either way

Like when they were searching R M house I would have been outside that gate incase they found her.

I believe the majority of mothers would do the same - to have her back either way in your arms you would feel you had her back and was now safe the first person to be there her mother.

Then face the nightmare that would unfold - where life would never be the same again

Not just sit and wait for someone else to do that for you.

As you should understand ...everyone's different...simple

[kizzy]

As you should understand ...everyone's different...simple

Yes well, best not make out what mccs did was - what other parents would do.

[Mr Gray]

Yes well, best not make out what mccs did was - what other parents would do.

Why not..quite normal imo...it's you who is claiming to know what every other parent would do. I don't see any of their behaviour as abnormal

[Lace]

OK so you did say something - disregard last comment.

As far as I can remember didn't they refuse any help from liaison officers?

The Liaison officer didn't arrive on the night Madeleine disappeared,  days later.   No help with dealing with parents at the most crucial time IMO.   You said the parents should have kept searching even when the Police had arrived.

[kizzy]

Why not..quite normal imo...it's you who is claiming to know what every other parent would do. I don't see any of their behaviour as abnormal

Did I say every - no

I just find it abnormal they sat around for news.

[Lace]

Yes well, best not make out what mccs did was - what other parents would do.

Such as searching the surrounding area where Madeleine had been known to visit,  calling the Police and then waiting for the Police to arrive?

[Mr Gray]

Did I say every - no

I just find it abnormal they sat around for news.

And I find it abnormal you and others are so nasty towards them

[kizzy]

The Liaison officer didn't arrive on the night Madeleine disappeared,  days later.   No help with dealing with parents at the most crucial time IMO.   You said the parents should have kept searching even when the Police had arrived.

They still refused any help from them - so it could have been the same if they had arrived earlier.

we will never know will we L

[Lace]

Did I say every - no

I just find it abnormal they sat around for news.

So are the other parents of missing children who sat around for news abnormal too?

You of course would have ran hysterically around the area all night wouldn't you?  Probably be one of the parents who needs sedation.

I've come to the conclusion that if the McCann's carried on through the night searching,  that would be wrong too. 'why didn't they stay in and wait for the Police,  what are they hiding,  still trying to hide Madeleine'    Nothing they did would be enough for some.

[Vertigo Swirl]

As I previously said - I would want her in MY arms either way

Like when they were searching R M house I would have been outside that gate incase they found her.

I believe the majority of mothers would do the same - to have her back either way in your arms you would feel you had her back and was now safe the first person to be there her mother.

Then face the nightmare that would unfold - where life would never be the same again

Not just sit and wait for someone else to do that for you.

Well that clearly means you are a very much better mother than Kate McCann - well done, you must feel so very pleased with yourself, and to know exactly how you would feel and behave in such a circumstance is truly exceptional. 

[kizzy]

So are the other parents of missing children who sat around for news abnormal too?

You of course would have ran hysterically around the area all night wouldn't you?  Probably be one of the parents who needs sedation.

I've come to the conclusion that if the McCann's carried on through the night searching,  that would be wrong too. 'why didn't they stay in and wait for the Police,  what are they hiding,  still trying to hide Madeleine'    Nothing they did would be enough for some.

No, I wouldn't have run around hysterically or needed sedation

I wouldn't have been punching and kicking walls either seems kmcc stayed in being hysterical and needed sedation

She was one of those -  as you choose to call me.

I do though wish you would stop making assumptions about how you see everything happens.

[Lace]

No, I wouldn't have run around hysterically or needed sedation

I wouldn't have been punching and kicking walls either seems kmcc stayed in being hysterical and needed sedation

She was one of those -  as you choose to call me.

I do though wish you would stop making assumptions about how you see everything happens.

You stop making assumptions that parents who wait for news are abnormal !! 

Yes Kate did punch things out of frustration wanting to hurt herself for leaving Madeleine alone,  understandable to me.

Thing is you don't know how you would react,  thank god you haven't been in that situation.