The Real Jeremy Bamber

[APRIL]

Who described JB in such terms?  Please provide a cite/source.

At one time  JB was working at WHF And working at Sloppy Joe's. 

According to chartered surveyor George Nicholls, NB told him he was pleased with hw JB was shaping up as a farmer.  Why would he say this if JB was as you've stated above?

According to someone who attended the farm once a year on business? I'd have thought those who saw him on a regular basis -and there were many- would have been better equipped to give an opinion. I CAN, if I was prepared to break confidences, say "Joe Bloggs, Uncle Tom Cobley et al" but you'll undoubtedly choose not to believe me. Not everything in life is written down -we don't anticipate disasters- but lack of written words doesn't mean 'stuff' hasn't happened. It just provides a security blanket for those who'd rather not know.

[ISpyWithMyEye]

I don’t suppose he’s told his supporters and very much doubt Aunt Agatha would have asked?

It looks like he made out to Daisy he was on his last legs unless I’ve read what she’s written wrong

But she thought he should be released on ‘compassionate grounds’

Sounds like his usual - more lies

In 6 years there’s been no mention of his alleged ‘serious health problems’

He’s most probably made it all up to make her feel sorry for him

Daisy is rather wealthy, so Jeremy being Jeremy, would have hinted he had a “serious” disease, possibly terminal, but wanted to keep it quiet as he didn’t want pity. She, having a soft heart, would have fought for his release (quietly), and told him she’d get a beautiful house for him to stay where he could live out his last days in comfort and beautiful surroundings...she’s deposit a large sum into a bank account for him so he could treat himself to all his favourite foods, drinks, clothes, home comforts...and travel first class to somewhere hot and sunny, say, Maldives?

He probably starved himself between visits, wore his baggiest clothes, rubbed some chalk on his face for extra pallor..then slowly dragged his legs as he entered the visiting room and shuffled up to her as he focussed on his dog who got knocked over 😢

[ISpyWithMyEye]

Did Bamber suffer from any ‘sexual dysfunction’ ?

Labels aside, could the reason why he was promiscuous be related to this in anyway?

Has this been explored before and has he ever discussed this with any of his supporters, fellow inmates or the ‘professional & compassionate’ prison officers or the numerous psychologists he’s allegedly meant to have seen over the years?

or

Did he just like to dominate and enjoy the power and control he felt over his conquests, regardless of whether they were male & female and was he ever faithful to any of them?

I read  SF fell pregnant two or three times by him which resulted in miscarriages, but how true it is who knows?

I haven’t heard anything to suggest he suffered sexual dysfunction, but he didn’t seem fussy in as much as he had lots of one-night stands, and he couldn’t have been attracted to them all otherwise he’d have seen them again. I suspect he was fighting his demons, and when men need to have sex with someone they’re not attracted to they simply fantasise...

[ISpyWithMyEye]

Was it a 'bonus' or a necessary boost to the Eaton's income? Who described Jeremy as a 'skiver'? The one person who didn't work is Sheila; she couldn't even hold down a cleaning job.

His father, Nevill said Jeremy was LAZY.

And everyone knew it.

Sheila was unwell, hence why she found it difficult to work. But at least she TRIED. And she wasn’t too grand to think a part-time cleaning job was beneath her, where she was possibly cleaning places that were smaller and cheaper than her own home...

She was also aware she wasn’t fit enough to hold down a better job, not forgetting she had two young children to look after! She also knew it was only a stop-gap, and not permanent. I admire her for trying to work when she was feeling so tired and unwell — she wasn’t growing drugs or burgling the caravan site like Jeremy!

[G-Unit]

His father, Nevill said Jeremy was LAZY.

And everyone knew it.

Sheila was unwell, hence why she found it difficult to work. But at least she TRIED. And she wasn’t too grand to think a part-time cleaning job was beneath her, where she was possibly cleaning places that were smaller and cheaper than her own home...

She was also aware she wasn’t fit enough to hold down a better job, not forgetting she had two young children to look after! She also knew it was only a stop-gap, and not permanent. I admire her for trying to work when she was feeling so tired and unwell — she wasn’t growing drugs or burgling the caravan site like Jeremy!

I don't know who gave that information about Nevill's opinion, do you? As far as I can tell Jeremy worked at various jobs, settling for working for his father following his trip abroad.

Sheila's first cleaning job was for two days a week in 1981 to give her some reliable income in between modelling jobs. Her employer found her inadequate as she needed to be 'directed' to carry out the work required. [CAL page 59]

[APRIL]

I don't know who gave that information about Nevill's opinion, do you? As far as I can tell Jeremy worked at various jobs, settling for working for his father following his trip abroad.

Sheila's first cleaning job was for two days a week in 1981 to give her some reliable income in between modelling jobs. Her employer found her inadequate as she needed to be 'directed' to carry out the work required. [CAL page 59]

"Inadequate" being your judgement. Her employer choose "rather dizzy".

[Holly Goodhead]

I don't know who gave that information about Nevill's opinion, do you? As far as I can tell Jeremy worked at various jobs, settling for working for his father following his trip abroad.

Sheila's first cleaning job was for two days a week in 1981 to give her some reliable income in between modelling jobs. Her employer found her inadequate as she needed to be 'directed' to carry out the work required. [CAL page 59]

I tend not to criticise SC because I think she suffered a lot of trauma very early on in her life when in June's care who herself was severely depressed to the extent she required in-patient psychiatric care and ECT.  Have you seen Dr Tronick's still face experiment:

https://youtu.be/apzXGEbZht0

If you read CC's wit stat he tells how SC was unable to hold down any sort of job including her modelling work.

[G-Unit]

I tend not to criticise SC because I think she suffered a lot of trauma very early on in her life when in June's care who herself was severely depressed to the extent she required in-patient psychiatric care and ECT.  Have you seen Dr Tronick's still face experiment:

https://youtu.be/apzXGEbZht0

If you read CC's wit stat he tells how SC was unable to hold down any sort of job including her modelling work.

My intention wasn't to criticise, just to point out that Jeremy worked, unlike his sister.

[APRIL]

My intention wasn't to criticise, just to point out that Jeremy worked, unlike his sister.

The exquisite irony here is that the Bambers were actually paying for Jeremy to play at working. Do you really imagine he could have afforded, on the wages paid in pizza parlours/wine bars/Little Chefs, to run a house, pay rent, utilities, insurances, food, tax, insure and put petrol in his car, were it not that he was being heavily subsidized by his parents?

[ISpyWithMyEye]

I don't know who gave that information about Nevill's opinion, do you? As far as I can tell Jeremy worked at various jobs, settling for working for his father following his trip abroad.

Sheila's first cleaning job was for two days a week in 1981 to give her some reliable income in between modelling jobs. Her employer found her inadequate as she needed to be 'directed' to carry out the work required. [CAL page 59]

Well, Sheila had a privileged upbringing with nannies, housekeepers etc...so of course she’d have no idea how to work for people as a cleaner...it was alien to her. And as she was so beautiful I suppose June and Nevill never thought it necessary to teach her housekeeping....

What’s your job, G-Unit?

[ISpyWithMyEye]

My intention wasn't to criticise, just to point out that Jeremy worked, unlike his sister.

Sheila was a mother, G-Unit. Of twins. Of course she couldn’t work.

I don’t know you: maybe you have to work due to your circumstances, but most mothers of twins don’t usually work to put bread on the table.

It didn’t seem to bother Nevill or June who helped her financially, so why does it seem to irk you?

[ISpyWithMyEye]

I tend not to criticise SC because I think she suffered a lot of trauma very early on in her life when in June's care who herself was severely depressed to the extent she required in-patient psychiatric care and ECT.  Have you seen Dr Tronick's still face experiment:

https://youtu.be/apzXGEbZht0

If you read CC's wit stat he tells how SC was unable to hold down any sort of job including her modelling work.

Jeremy grew up in the same surroundings with June and Nevill...but he seemed happy working at Sloppy Joe’s.

Yes, he subsided his income by thieving, secretly growing drugs and selling them, and taking cash gifts from Nevill, but he seemed content knocking up cocktails behind the bar...so how do you account for that?

[G-Unit]

Well, Sheila had a privileged upbringing with nannies, housekeepers etc...so of course she’d have no idea how to work for people as a cleaner...it was alien to her. And as she was so beautiful I suppose June and Nevill never thought it necessary to teach her housekeeping....

What’s your job, G-Unit?

According to Ann Eaton in summer 1973 June took to dropping Sheila at her house for her to teach Sheila how to perform household jobs and how to cook. It didn't work. The following summer she left school and headed for London and Secretarial College.

[Caroline]

My intention wasn't to criticise, just to point out that Jeremy worked, unlike his sister.

Your post gave the opposite of your intention but unless you had forgotten, Sheila had mental health issues. Jeremy only settled to work for his father when his options had run out.

[ISpyWithMyEye]

According to Ann Eaton in summer 1973 June took to dropping Sheila at her house for her to teach Sheila how to perform household jobs and how to cook. It didn't work. The following summer she left school and headed for London and Secretarial College.

Sheila was just 16 in 1973.

I can’t think of anything more boring at that age to be driven to your older cousin’s — one who’s possibly domineering, fussy & particular — and being shown how to chop vegetables, iron linen, fold napkins and use a feather duster.

Sixteen-year-olds are interested in listen to music, practicing make-up, laughing with their friends, and reading about their pop idol...