Do you not think the abuse directed at their parents upsets the twins
It absolute must do
I would have thought that some of the comments directed at their parents, should the twins have heard of it, almost certainly would upset the twins.
I certainly would not have been comfortable if this had been directed at my parents. And I came from a family whom I felt loved me and strove hard to get better for me than they had themselves.
And this is the nub of the problem. Who wins in a battle, IF that battle is the twins v the world, or even just some elements of the world? Let me think. 12 year old immature, inexperienced brains v fully grown, experienced and hostile brains?
Or even 12 year old, immature, inexperienced brains v other 12 year old, inexperienced but hostile brains.
I wouldn't let my kids go into either situation.
Which is why I would not be letting my kids run Madeleine cash-raising schemes in secondary school (they haven't done that yet, I know). Which is why I would insist with the media that they had a right to privacy (it's not their fault they got headlines, is it?). Which is why, in advance, I would be putting other safeguards in place with their school. (Not crossing fingers and hoping.)
As a person with a near-total lack of empathy (that's me), I can see it all coming. Some of it is unavoidable. Much of it is. I may not do empathy, but I do do foresight combined with action.
The twins deserve at least that. They should not be tabloid fodder.