It's their own fault.
I wonder how much hate mail Kerry Needham recieves.
None, I'd imagine, because she doesn't have the spectre of unanswered questions hanging over her.
In her book Kerry Needham details instances which caused her distress ... Ben vanished before the internet was available to be misused in wicked campaigns such as that suffered by the Drs McCann; otherwise it is my opinion it is probable she would have recieved similar treatment.
A journalist detailed some of it as follows when Kerry's book was released ... unfortunately I have lost the link ...
"That laughter, a tribute to their survival, is hard won.
Kerry and Stephen were on a bus in Sheffield three years after Ben vanished.
They laughed at some joke.
A stranger approached them saying she was shocked that Kerry could laugh when her son was missing.
She hopes her book will set the record straight: But when I have heard accusations against them, I have checked them out.
I was told by a woman on Kos that they sold Ben;
they neglected him;
Kerry was an unfit mother;
they lived like hippies and Gypsies;
they pretended to be poor but had a lot of money and two houses.
Had there been any evidence for these rumours and I had ignored it, my affection for them would have been seen as compromising my integrity.
The family were at first prime suspects and interrogated for hours by the police in Kos.
In 1996, the police showed me the Needham file.
There was no evidence lending credibility to the gossip, although there was a statement made against Kerry by someone she thought of as a friend, saying she had been with him the night Ben vanished.
I asked her about it.
She was with her family searching all night – she had alibis proving what he said was a lie.
Why he did that remains a mystery.
Three years ago I was writing about the family for Granta magazine.
A British journalist told me he believed Stephen had accidentally killed Ben on his motorbike that day, and Chris had hidden his body.
I challenged Chris. She asked me with bitter humour if I could see her doing that and lying for 19 years to her daughter, her ... "
LINK ADDED
http://www.theguardian.com/uk/2013/apr/28/ben-needham-kerry-needham-interview