Is the apportioning of blame a coping mechanism?

[Brietta]

Your posts are disgusting Stephen,   there is no need for what you call 'Mills and Boon'  quotes,  the McCann's were clearly distraught at finding their daughter missing there were many witnesses to that fact and people like you should be ashamed of yourself for suggesting they were play acting.

Imagine being the parents of a missing child and someone saying they were putting on an act.

In your opinion then they were laughing and patting themselves on the back because their daughter was dead. 

There's something seriously wrong with your way of thinking.

I don't think it possible for thinking to be as seriously flawed as that.  I think it possible there are wind up merchants around who come up with preposterous notions and throw them about just to see who will bite.

[stephen25000]

Your posts are disgusting Stephen,   there is no need for what you call 'Mills and Boon'  quotes,  the McCann's were clearly distraught at finding their daughter missing there were many witnesses to that fact and people like you should be ashamed of yourself for suggesting they were play acting.

Imagine being the parents of a missing child and someone saying they were putting on an act.

In your opinion then they were laughing and patting themselves on the back because their daughter was dead. 

There's something seriously wrong with your way of thinking.

Oh dear.

You mccann supporters are so predictable in your responses it has become quite sad.

You can't get over the fact that all the investigations have led into a blind alley as regards abduction.

As to '...seriously wrong with your way of thinking...', that applies to you and your fellows who stick religiously to the 'abduction'.

Quite sad really.

[carlymichelle]

Oh dear.

You mccann supporters are so predictable in your responses it has become quite sad.

You can't get over the fact that all the investigations have led into a blind alley as regards abduction.

As to '...seriously wrong with your way of thinking...', not that applies to you and your fellows who stick religiously to the 'abduction'.

Quite sad really.

i kinda  find it  disturbing that they pin their hopes    that a abductor  abducted maddie therefore  takign away the blame of the mcanns    do they realsie   what abductors  do?? look at our case here in australia with the 2 year old in the suitcase and her murdered mother ( which was  not  maddie and  never  was)  denial  is a  bad  thing

[Mr Gray]

Oh dear.

You mccann supporters are so predictable in your responses it has become quite sad.

You can't get over the fact that all the investigations have led into a blind alley as regards abduction.

As to '...seriously wrong with your way of thinking...', that applies to you and your fellows who stick religiously to the 'abduction'.

Quite sad really.

Sy seem to agree

[stephen25000]

Sy seem to agree

and we know they have found zip.

Next.

[Anna]

Topic please.. without personal remarks

[Alice Purjorick]

i kinda  find it  disturbing that they pin their hopes    that a abductor  abducted maddie therefore  takign away the blame of the mcanns    do they realsie   what abductors  do?? look at our case here in australia with the 2 year old in the suitcase and her murdered mother ( which was  not  maddie and  never  was)  denial  is a  bad  thing

I tend to agree in principle. What I find disturbing is the belief the child was abducted, remains alive, that it is a semi-satisfactory state of affairs which will ultimately have a happy ending. Any one who thinks otherwise is branded as deficient in someway.
The girl, if alive, is going on13 and will have spent more time without her parents than with them.

[Lace]

Oh dear.

You mccann supporters are so predictable in your responses it has become quite sad.

You can't get over the fact that all the investigations have led into a blind alley as regards abduction.

As to '...seriously wrong with your way of thinking...', that applies to you and your fellows who stick religiously to the 'abduction'.

Quite sad really.

We are discussing whether the McCann's showed grief when Madeleine was missing Stephen not abduction.

You don't believe Madeleine was abducted, you believe she died due to an accident in 5a  so you think the McCann's were pretending to grieve for a dead daughter,  is that what you are saying?     Putting on an act of being devastated their child was dead?

[carlymichelle]

I tend to agree in principle. What I find disturbing is the belief the child was abducted, remains alive, that it is a semi-satisfactory state of affairs which will ultimately have a happy ending. Any one who thinks otherwise is branded as deficient in someway.
The girl, if alive, is going on13 and will have spent more time without her parents than with them.

i agree alice  if the 1%  chance maddie  was abducted and is alive she would have no memories of  kate and gerry and would have been  traumatised brainwashed etc stockholm sydrome and all that

[Alfred R Jones]

I tend to agree in principle. What I find disturbing is the belief the child was abducted, remains alive, that it is a semi-satisfactory state of affairs which will ultimately have a happy ending. Any one who thinks otherwise is branded as deficient in someway.
The girl, if alive, is going on13 and will have spent more time without her parents than with them.

I think Madeleine is likely long dead, and no one (apart from McCann "sceptics") has branded me as deficient.  Work that one out!

[Lace]

i kinda  find it  disturbing that they pin their hopes    that a abductor  abducted maddie therefore  takign away the blame of the mcanns    do they realsie   what abductors  do?? look at our case here in australia with the 2 year old in the suitcase and her murdered mother ( which was  not  maddie and  never  was)  denial  is a  bad  thing

Of course the McCann's know what abductors do Carly,  they are intelligent people.

What has the murdered two year old have to do with anything?

The fact is if Madeleine is with an abductor,  then she needs to be found and judging by what you are saying you knowing what abductors do and all that,    I would think you would agree.  Or do you think,  oh well she has been with him for over eight years,  leave her there?

[Lace]

Sorry Anna could you separate my post from Stephen's please?

Thanking you in advance.

[Lace]

i agree alice  if the 1%  chance maddie  was abducted and is alive she would have no memories of  kate and gerry and would have been  traumatised brainwashed etc stockholm sydrome and all that

Oh well no point in trying to find her then is there?    Let the person who abducted her go scot free to do it again.

[carlymichelle]

Oh well no point in trying to find her then is there?    Let the person who abducted her go scot free to do it again.

why do you use emotional blackmail lace??   no one has  said anything like that  we are just pointing out  reality

[Mr Gray]

why do you use emotional blackmail lace??   no one has  said anything like that  we are just pointing out  reality

reality is that SY are investigating a criminal act by a stranger and the parents are not suspects...perhaps I could point that out