Author Topic: They were just 50m away, just like dining in ones back garden?  (Read 56477 times)

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stephen25000

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Re: They were just 50m away, just like dining in ones back garden?
« Reply #255 on: November 30, 2016, 06:55:03 PM »
No different to the decision millions of parents have made over the centuries ... and the Mccanns were like in their back garden only 50 metres away ... the only open way in that they were aware of well lit and over looked by the tapas group ... and regularly checking in a manner far better than hotel checks.


Why keep picking on the Mccanns?  Does it make you feel good ?

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Alfie

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Re: They were just 50m away, just like dining in ones back garden?
« Reply #256 on: November 30, 2016, 06:55:25 PM »
Probably the safest thing to do.
Please don't be absurd.

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Re: They were just 50m away, just like dining in ones back garden?
« Reply #257 on: November 30, 2016, 06:57:35 PM »
Please don't be absurd.
Wasn't it your suggestion in the first place?
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Alfie

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Re: They were just 50m away, just like dining in ones back garden?
« Reply #258 on: November 30, 2016, 06:57:55 PM »
Why not?
Because I'd either doubt my own memory, put it down to a breeze moving the door when I entered the apartment, or just one of those things that doesn't have an immediate explanation.  I wouldn't have thought "oh dear there must be an intruder", it just wouldn't have occurred to me.

Alfie

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Re: They were just 50m away, just like dining in ones back garden?
« Reply #259 on: November 30, 2016, 06:59:09 PM »
Wasn't it your suggestion in the first place?
No.  I was being facetious.  No one wakes up a sleeping four year old to ask them how they are unless they're quite mad.

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Re: They were just 50m away, just like dining in ones back garden?
« Reply #260 on: November 30, 2016, 07:03:11 PM »
No.  I was being facetious.  No one wakes up a sleeping four year old to ask them how they are unless they're quite mad.
That's why I thought it a great idea and wonder why it is not done more often.  (Now realise I'm being facetious too Alfred.)
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Re: They were just 50m away, just like dining in ones back garden?
« Reply #261 on: November 30, 2016, 07:13:57 PM »
Because I'd either doubt my own memory, put it down to a breeze moving the door when I entered the apartment, or just one of those things that doesn't have an immediate explanation.  I wouldn't have thought "oh dear there must be an intruder", it just wouldn't have occurred to me.
May I ask what sort of occupation you had?  My guess is you wouldn't make a good doctor, veterinarian farmer or a detective with such an easy going nature.
I'm always looking for clues.
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Re: They were just 50m away, just like dining in ones back garden?
« Reply #262 on: November 30, 2016, 07:17:12 PM »
May I ask what sort of occupation you had?  My guess is you wouldn't make a good doctor, veterinarian farmer or a detective with such an easy going nature.
I'm always looking for clues.
I still work, and no you may not.  But you're right I'm not a doctor but Gerry is, so your point is moot.  Unless you're saying that because he didn't pay more attention to the door which have moved that it means he's a bad doctor...?  &%+((£

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Re: They were just 50m away, just like dining in ones back garden?
« Reply #263 on: November 30, 2016, 07:22:09 PM »
No different to the decision millions of parents have made over the centuries ... and the Mccanns were like in their back garden only 50 metres away ... the only open way in that they were aware of well lit and over looked by the tapas group ... and regularly checking in a manner far better than hotel checks.


Why keep picking on the Mccanns?  Does it make you feel good ?

Why is it 'picking on' someone to point out that they were content to leave their small children to their own devices for up to 30 minutes at a time? A decision that millions of parents have not made over the centuries.
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Re: They were just 50m away, just like dining in ones back garden?
« Reply #264 on: November 30, 2016, 07:24:01 PM »
I still work, and no you may not.  But you're right I'm not a doctor but Gerry is, so your point is moot.  Unless you're saying that because he didn't pay more attention to the door which have moved that it means he's a bad doctor...?  &%+((£
He made a diagnosis (He thought mm woke up and put herself back to bed).  We don't know if he was right or not, but the father in me says he was wrong.
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Alfie

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Re: They were just 50m away, just like dining in ones back garden?
« Reply #265 on: November 30, 2016, 08:00:39 PM »
Why is it 'picking on' someone to point out that they were content to leave their small children to their own devices for up to 30 minutes at a time? A decision that millions of parents have not made over the centuries.
And millions have.

Offline G-Unit

Re: They were just 50m away, just like dining in ones back garden?
« Reply #266 on: November 30, 2016, 08:52:26 PM »
And millions have.

Well if you think it was a sensible decision what can I say? According to their friends and family they weren't the type of parents to take risks with their children. It seems they didn't really know them.
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Re: They were just 50m away, just like dining in ones back garden?
« Reply #267 on: November 30, 2016, 08:58:08 PM »
Well if you think it was a sensible decision what can I say? According to their friends and family they weren't the type of parents to take risks with their children. It seems they didn't really know them.
I didn't say it was sensible, but we have all taken risks with our children at one time or another and anyone who claims otherwise is lying IMO.

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Re: They were just 50m away, just like dining in ones back garden?
« Reply #268 on: November 30, 2016, 10:45:04 PM »
I didn't say it was sensible, but we have all taken risks with our children at one time or another and anyone who claims otherwise is lying IMO.

Deliberately? Knowing they might suffer?
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Re: They were just 50m away, just like dining in ones back garden?
« Reply #269 on: November 30, 2016, 10:59:40 PM »
Deliberately? Knowing they might suffer?
Of course.  My parents let me play out from morning till night, roaming the neighbourhood sometimes with friends, sometimes alone, in a country bursting at the seams with poisonous snakes, spiders, insects, not to mention some locals who would view a white child as a potential meal ticket, or worse, no phone, no rules about when I had to be home, I was totally free during school holidays from the age of about 8.  I travelled thousands of miles from home to school and back again alone from the age of 12.  My childhood was completely typical of most expats I knew.  I was at far greater risk of coming to serious harm from being allowed to roam the neighbourhood or travelling unaccompanied than I would have been left alone aged 3 asleep in my bed and checked on every thirty minutes.

  There are millions upon millions of examples of parents deliberately giving their kids free rein, despite the fact that bad things could happen and cause them to suffer.  It's only when something goes wrong that the parent questions their judgement and we berate them for their stupidity, but mercifully most times nothing does go wrong.  Don't pretend the McCanns are seriously abnormal - they are not.
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