OK. To save getting sidetracked into arguments over a word I'll rephrase. I have seen evidence of one argument between Sheila Bamber and her mother in May 1983 by a friend of Sheila's, but I don't know who she was. [CAL page 81] I have seen no other reports.
G-unit, most families quarrel on occasion, but what they don’t do is quarrel in front of guests
It’s bad firm and embarrassing
You may think it’s normal to argue about private matters in front of outsiders, but most people keep their differences private.
You have no idea what went on — you’re just making assumptions — something you do frequently
Just because Sheila didn’t respond to her mother’s demands in front of people was that she didn’t want to embarrass everyone, including herself, and so probably let her mother ramble on...but when they were alone it may have been completely different.
Anyway, this doesn’t detract from the fact that Jeremy murdered his family: in fact, he used the tensions and problems as an excuse to blame Sheila for his heinous crime.