Never been anywhere near Ampleforth in my life! Not from a Catholic family either! In fact I've only now just looked it up and wish I'd had the opportunity and good fortune to be educated there...
https://www.ampleforthcollege.org.uk/
Fabulous place isn't it? Do they still do the Hare Coursing? Do they use fox hounds or beagles?
And even better now since it is co-educational. Too many peadophile monks there before ... and some lay people too.
Your Dad went there too, you were both very lucky. He was a friend and contemporary, IIRC of Basil Hume, so no wonder Headmaster/ Abbott/ Cardinal Basil took a special interest in you.
As for not being Catholic, how come you chose an Italian Catholic Priest/Monk as your avatar? Members may remember your avatar of a ?medieval? Priest against a round window. At the time you said that he was the man you most aspired to be like. When I produced a source for the avatar photograph, strangely it immediately disappeared off the internet and there appears to be no trace of this man any more.
I wonder why?
I hope that you are improving. The Gen seemed very worried for you.