Is this something you've researched? If not how do you know? And if yes, why?
There's no evidence he was 'promiscuous' and/or had loads of flings with women.
JM saying this, that or the other doesn't make it so. She admitted to:
- cheque fraud
- acting as a lookout for JB when he burgled OCP
- selling JB's cannabis on campus
- taking cocaine in a hotel room with a female friend and two males
Hardly reliable.
I have indeed researched it, yes.
Without wishing to bore (my posts are long, I know), but when men suppress their gay leanings, often due to their family’s reaction — or their own misguided shame — they attempt to control their urges by sleeping with women and becoming promiscuous because the sex isn’t gratifying for them. There are, obviously, promiscuous heterosexual men, but Jeremy doesn’t fall into that camp because he’s admitted to secret gay relationships.
Some secretly gay men will be attracted to careers which are typically masculine, such as the police force, army, airforce, truck driving...manly things. That’s why people are often shocked when a seemingly happily married man with children who always seemed masculine declares to his wife he’s gay.
Back to Jeremy Bamber, I’ve read a huge amount of accounts where many different people have said he was EXTREMELY promiscuous. He was known to trawl the local bars and pick up one-nights stands, and he also cheated on his girlfriends, including Julie. I’m surprised you don’t know that?
I don’t know why you keep dragging up Julie’s ONE instance of cheque fraud, where she reported her cheque book stolen & went shopping with her friend. Jeremy knew ALL about it, and gleefully accepted the coffee machine she’d bought him with one of the cheques. She did admit to it, though....and she confessed to the bank and paid the money back.
When Jeremy Bamber burgled the caravan park, he’d obviously planned it when he knew there’s be almost £1000 there in cash. Julie thought he was just taking her for a walk along the sea wall, then sprung it in her and told her to watch out while he went inside. She didn’t know he was planning it, and went along with it because she was in love with him and was young and naive.
As for selling Jeremy’s cannabis on his behalf, he was the supplier — and he was using her to sell it. That doesn’t exonerate her, but she was hardly smuggling 20kilos of Heroin from Columbia...she was selling a few small packets of weed on Jeremy’s behalf. And by all accounts, it was rubbish — someone said you may as well have smoked a cabbage leaf.
If she took Cocaine on one occasion with friends, that isn’t a crime. She wasn’t selling it or buying it. Surely you must know that both weed and Cocaine is EVERYWHERE, so her one snort hardly makes her a drug baron.
You can paint Julie as black as you like — and I myself feel she was partly responsible for what happened to that poor family. Jeremy had told her repeatedly what he planned to do, and she had the power to prevent that. I certainly would have told Nevill and June — in front of Jeremy too. And/or I’d have gone to the police and told them what he’d been threatening to do; then told him too, and said if he did do anything they’d know it was him. I wouldn’t care if he dumped me as I wouldn’t have wanted to be near someone who was capable of even THINKING such evil things.
But all that aside, and the fact she didn’t try to prevent Jeremy murdering them, you can’t make her out be some drug-smuggling junkie and serial fraudster. She wasn’t, she made some stupid mistakes which she owned up to.
