As long as you’re happy that’s the main thing.
You're right. You have to be happy in life.
I find it intriguing the delineation in this associated case - 'supporters' call 'torture' and 'miscarriage of justice' and 'sceptics' call 'fair kop' and 'means to an end' (to a degree). Funny that, given the bearing on the reputation of GA.
I like to try to put myself in the other non-gender specific, carbon based unit's shoes (or moccasins) - this was a heinous crime (allegedly), with two people known to the local police as ne'er do wells at best, they have the uncle in one room singing like Barry Manilow on a Cruise Ship - confessing to 'just killing her', and in the next room we have the specimen of a 'mother' telling whichever tale her lawyer thinks might get her the least time.
I'm gonna be straight, I don't think much coercion was required at any point. I think there's every chance the coppers gave both of them a hiding, and I'd have done exactly the same - does that make me a bad person? Yes. Tough shit.